I started (half) today and looked in the mirror and said THE words and low and behold I was totally smitten, I mean like totally bowled over I couldn't believe it,,,,,, was this the person I have been searching for all my life. ha ha only messing
I did start and it felt good filled me with a little with a sense of hope and I thought this hope could grow (going through a little rough patch at the mo) I checked out my local library and books shops for the book but to no avail so I have it ordered with one of the big book stores in the city.
your in a tough place think most of us know the feeling 'horrible' although difficult it's not fatal
Maybe you could try get to spend some time together to trash things out and come up with something that is workable for you both. It's seems you were connecting for a long time and then a bust up over something that could be worked out with some compromise and discussion.
If you think your good together and the guy feels something for you give it your best shot and if it doesn't work out then move on happy in the knowledge that you did try your best and that you could do no more........
The report does not surprise me, cigarettes are so so bad for all aspects of our health.
I wish for all smokers to quit. Nicotine is a highly addictive drug and is difficult to beat but the good news is it is doable ie not impossible.
I battled for years with the addiction, I was an erratic smokers and was on/off them all the time. Sometimes I would only smoke when having a drink at the weekend. I never did smoke till after 6pm then I could smoke a fair few as I would be telling myself 'I will stop tomorrow' and so on.
I was always giving them up and the last time I stopped I stayed stopped. I don't even know when that was exactly, just that it was years ago now.
It was the single most best think I ever did in my life, well that and having my three kids.
I just wish everyone the same chance as I got, I have never looked back.
Good luck to anyone who is addicted you too can stop its not impossible............
That is the best good luck story I've heard in a long time. I am very happy for you both and really wish you good luck in the sharing of your lives together. Love is all you need......
Big thanks for sharing the good news with all on CS, as I often wondered if it were at all possible to meet that someone special on here. You give hope to us all.
(BTW thanks for your reply to another post that I wrote, I was rushing out the door at the time and couldn't respond. Appreciated.)
basic personalities don't change, people just get more comfortable in their own skin and don't feel the need to impress whatever. Basically we learn to care less and relax more in what appears to be a dignified manner yes does come with age and maturity
If a child is troubled, he/she is simply a troubled child who needs to be nurtured and tamed for the want of a better word. We are the adults the child depends on the significant adults around them to do right by them. It would take time, patience and a hell of a lot of dedication to sort the child out. They need to be helped from the onset, they are only tiny not born monsters. Love can cure all evils.................
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walked miles along the beach today and the fresh air never killed me. Ttys 
RE: The Power of Prayer?
Hi guysgetting back to the question at hand.......
I would say the God issue can be as complicated and as complex as you wish or just flip the coin and simplify..........God can be so uncomplicated
it is simply a matter of good verses bad
positive verses negative
love of the self and there after love for others
"do onto other as you have done onto you"
so so sooooooooooo simple
go forth and love...........................
drop the egosssssssssssssssss