Just saw this thread...had a date last night that was pretty bad (see thread Muses Date)
But he worst todate was a few years ago...Went to dinner & drinks with this fellow who really thought he was the cats meow!!! He ran his own dog training school locally. He, in my opinion, was a dog! But I'm polite and go through with the date, he ate like a real pig!After he gorged on two meals at the same time, he asked me if I liked him and if we had a future? I was honest & polite. He then immediately had to go to the mens room...gosh I felt so bad and was hoping he wasn't crying or anything! A long time passes, so I ask the waiter who served us if he would go see if he was alright...
He had exited out the back door and stiffed me with the $160. bill!$!
I'll be just hanging out here, cutting grass, gardening, listening to Foo Fighters-over & over Thanks so much Jayne for the site He's kinda cute, wonder if he's single...
Your answering the questions I have in mind. With boring convo, constant compliments, always trying to kiss me, which I only offered my cheek, touchy feely, the good-bye hug...hhhhmmm makes you wonder huh? Think he left early cause he wasn't getting what he may have been going after...?
All this at hand...I think I'll play my theme song for a little lift ...'done, done, on to the next one...'
I hear you both are having a nice weekend together... I'll focus on the positive, have some writing to do. Who's Birthday is it anyways?
Oh so sorry, ...'done, done, on to the next one..' LOL if it was all sparks I would of wanted to share right away I guess. &:{
It was a bit of a bore!
We parted ways around 10:30 PM and I thought I'd just take a snooze...sorry I feel asleep! it was that exciting of an evening!
I so appreciate everyones input,
I DID have fun, chatting here with all of you about the date, then I DID have fun dancing to loud music while trying on all my favorite clothes! Now I know exactly what to wear on the next date!
So this is the scoop; He is an Architect who owns his own business for 15 yrs now, works 7 days a week!!!(I met him thru another site, you can e-mail me if u want to see his pic's) He is a smaller build of a man, though in good shape, he plays alot of Hockey. He is Chinese and rather attractive looking. I guess when someone's always working & not socializing, can make for dull convo's. He is a Very shy guy and more so when he saw me, also a serious type of character. Great compliment for me, but I'm a very outgoing character who is always laughing, joking & rarely serious. So we do differ alot there, sometimes opposites attract? We met in a large park nearby, around 9PM, he was working late, (this working thing has got me thinking) It was a beautiful evening to be outside, it finally cooled down around here. We sat on a park bench, under a big maple tree, an amber lightpost shinning nearby, a romantic setting for sure! He gave me a few pecks on the cheek and complimented me every second sentence. Then by 10:30 he left, for he hadn't had dinner yet!?! I gave him a big hug good-bye, ( pls tell me if this is normal) I could feel his manhood up & at attention!?! Guess its a sign he is healthy?
I will go out with him again, see if he's less nervous & shy. I understand some people are real nervous on these first dates!
This is a rather sad topic...it me when I hear all these cases. My Sister, the best Mom in the world, was not able to conceive. Beyond me how kids can have kids, kids on drugs etc. and here my sister Healthy happy successful, the perfect specimen to be a Mom wasn't able. She adopted two boys from China! I love being an Auntie and play a big part in their lives, I help teach them well. Education & open communication rules! of course lots & lots of love...
As most of you know, I'm not a Parent, just an Auntie. I would so appreciate some advice here.
I have a date tonight with a fellow who has a son of 11 from a previous relationship(he never married).
His X has the child always, he said she is in control of the child 100% and the child prefers to be with the Mother. He does see his child from time to time, whenever he wants, like to the boys Hockey practices & games. He said that the Mom has brain-washed the child to never accept other females his Dad is related to. The child won't even go into his Dad's workplace, cuz the child see's another female in his office and thinks its his Dad's girlfriend! This fellow also mentions to me, his last relationship of 'True Love' that lasted 4 yrs, ended due the fact he NEVER introduced his child to her.
Curly, you've touched me again! I must thank you for the constant goose bumps you provide, (your posting topics...no one get the wrong idea here!) with the weather so hot & humid here lately, the goose bumps are cooling me down!
Glad to know I'm not alone with these experiences & beliefs!
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