I have been on several other PAYING sites. MET many very nice people...just NOT the one I was looking for.
I created my profile on this site back in June and then forgot about it. I figured the paying sites would be much better at finding a local person........Only time I would come on this site was when I got a notice that I had an email. BOY how wrong I was.....
Well I got another notice. A local gentleman sent me a "flower"...I sent a thank you. I met him a couple of days later for lunch. I really liked him. Thought he would make a great partner FOR MY SISTER....
Met him a second time and a third and said to heck with introducing him to anyone. I thought " I really like this man"...... NOW it seems to be mutual. He has become the love of my life. That ONE HONEST MAN that I have been looking for.
Isn't life strange. I had deleted all the paying sites...had decided to get off the internet and forget it. Then WHAM there he is.
Don't give up....MEET PEOPLE IN PERSON.... get your LOCAL FORUMS active so you can meet people CLOSE.... People complain about long distance, but YOU have the PERFECT tool HERE to meet people locally....
Everyone can sit home on their computers forever, but if your seriously wanting to meet the love of your live FIND them HERE and then meet in person. Meet everyone as a friend, NOT AS A DATE... then if there is no chemistry...you still have a FRIEND....
Shinedown please start NOW deciding who your going to spend the holidays with...DON'T sit alone. Find a friend or relative that will be there for you....
We get this forum room active...yeah I know I've already ask this BUT if we are willing to get it going connecting singles may help us with posting local gatherings etc.
There have been over 400 views on some of these threads in the GA FORUM. WHY can't we get some ideas here on how we can make this site work for us?
Please..... what would YOU like to see here....what would make YOU use this site??? Why not try to meet local people that is within your driving range to meet in person and DATE?
Dad I'm sorry....it's from a "senior" site....what can I say.....and they are supposedly 45 and up......but your right.... I have friends of all ages.... Since it's only Nov maybe we can figure something out right quick that will work for ALL....
BASH in Atlanta second weekend in April 2008....for Singles 45 and up... You have to get you own cheapest way here, but the hotel gives a discount for the group. Activities are set up for the weekend....
If your interested let me know....don't think I can post the info in a forum....BUT who cares what site your on as long as you are friends meeting friends....
When your taking care of peoples needs you can't help but get close emotionally...you wouldn't be human if you didn't, but you have to know when to draw the line. Your aide was right... you've got to do a GOOD job but realize what limit you can go to without getting hurt....
Tiffanie how I wish that we could all have the knowlege we have now WHEN WE WERE 20......unfortunately at that age we don't listen to anyone....we have to make our own mistakes....
Shame the younger generation can't look at what WE have been through and NOT go down the same path....smile BUT that is life...
I'm sorry you went through a hard time...guess we've all been there...hard to be over 50 and not have had a lot of heartache....along with alot of happiness. I hope everyone will forget the bad times....build our future on the KNOWLEGE of what we've learned...not go into the same situation....but find a relationship that you not only love the person, but LOVE THE RELATIONSHIP....
You AND your partner will get up each day with a smile and you'll go to bed with a smile KNOWING each other put it there.... you do everything in your power to make each other happy... your totally honest with each other.............IF you do that how can it go wrong????
Unmatchable hon sounds like you just answered your own question. Your in a situation you don't want.
If you don't feel comfortable talking to her about anything on earth...your in the WRONG relationship. If you DID go forward with her the way your feeling the relationship would be destroyed in a very short time.
Both people have to be on the same level. They have to WANT the same things out of life. Yes your very very lucky that she seems to LOVE YOU, but love is not the ONLY thing in a relationship.
You said you both agreed to be friends with benefits. Sounds like it was a good theory, but is not being achieved. So many people get hurt by not wanting the same things.
You can only be yourself... know what YOU want and then talk to her. You can't control how she feels or acts...you can only do what is right for YOU.... Sounds like you've been honest with her from the start.....KEEP BEING HONEST.... to you and her
TO get the words to a song go to GOOGLE type in ..... song lyrics slow hand and hit enter OR whatever song title you have. If you don't KNOW the song title type in a phrase from the song
It will pull up a list of different songs and artist and you clik on the one you want....
Most places will also have the song PLAYING at the same place....
You don't have to put the words...just the title...but I this was exactly what I was looking for before I ever heard this song.... LeAnne Rimes says it perfectly....
What I'm looking for is a love that's forever. Someone who can capture my soul in a heartbeat And stay for all time.
What I'm praying for is a match made in heaven. Someone who will worship my body and still put His heart on the line.
Commitment. Someone who'll go the distance. I need somebody with staying power Who will make me go weak in the knees. Commitment. And everything that goes with it. I need honor and love in my life From somebody who's playing for keeps.
What I'm searching for is a man who'll stand by me. Who will walk through the fire and be my Flame in the night.
Oh, and I won't settle for less than what I deserve. A friend and a lover who will love me for the Rest of my life.
Commitment. Someone who'll go the distance. I need somebody with staying power Who will make me go weak in the knees. Commitment. And everything that goes with it. I need honor and love in my life From somebody who's playing for keeps.
Yeah, I've had promises broken. Three words left unspoken. They just left me achin' for more. But I've fought temptation. I won't be impatient. There's one thing worth waiting for
Commitment. And everything that goes with it. I need honor and love in my life From somebody who's playing for keeps.
Commitment. Someone who'll go the distance. I need somebody to stand proud of. Who will make me go weak in the knees.
Commitment. And everything that goes with it. I need honor and love in my life From somebody who's playing for keeps.
Blossoms...well hon your NOT alone now...you have US...if you ever need a friend to talk with I'm here.... Don't ever give up....there are so many wonderful guys looking for a lady like you..... you'll find him OR he'll find YOU when you least expect it
My question is what are they doing to make you WAIT....are they in another relationship..... is it that they just can't make up their mind..... are they going through a divorce..... It all depends on the circumstances....
1. to live for as long as you want to live for ....... CAN YOU IMAGINE THE ACHES AND PAINS YOU WOULD HAVE YUCK
2.a chance to be somebody else.... I HAVE ENOUGH TROUBLE BEING "ME" WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO BE SOMEONE ELSE...GRIN
3.your dream relationship with what you redard as being a superier being.............THERE ARE "NO" SUPERIOR BEINGS....SOME JUST STUDY HARDER.....
4.to be loved the way you've always wanted to be loved by one person only ....... YES YES YES.......THIS IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT
5, to be respected the way you always wanted to be respected by one person only....... WE ALL EARN RESPECT...IF THAT PERSON DOESN'T RESPECT US AS WE ARE THEN THEY ARE NOT WORTH THE EXTRA EFFORT
6,to be given as much power in society as you,ve always wanted.... POWER CAN BE TAKEN AWAY IN AN INSTANT...
7. to make one change to this world that would make you happy.... PEOPLE HAVE TRIED TO CHANGE THE WORLD FOR GENERATIONS.... WE ALL NEED TO HELP ON A CONTINUAL BASIS
8.your dream romantic partner .... FORGET THE DREAMS...FIND A REAL ONE AND MAKE THE DREAMS COME TRUE....
9,total inner peace ,,,i repeat total inner peace .....IF YOU LIKE YOURSELF AND KNOW YOU ARE THE BEST YOU CAN BE YOU'LL HAVE THAT INNER PEACE
10. 20 million pounds..... CAN BE GONE IN A HEARTBEAT....
ok ok so I took the LONG way to get there.....grin
My sentiments exactly....even if you both have the same wants and needs in life you have changes everyday....LIFE changes....what you want and need changes....you have to talk and tell each other what you want and need constantly. If not. how would you ever GET IT?????
People are not mind readers. Just because your together a while and get to know what each other likes...is that enough?? What happens when the relationship falls apart and you don't know why???? Talk to each other everyday....about everything in life....in and out of the bedroom.....
DOES THIS SITE WORK??
In one word Y E SI have been on several other PAYING sites. MET many very nice people...just NOT the one I was looking for.
I created my profile on this site back in June and then forgot about it. I figured the paying sites would be much better at finding a local person........Only time I would come on this site was when I got a notice that I had an email. BOY how wrong I was.....
Well I got another notice. A local gentleman sent me a "flower"...I sent a thank you. I met him a couple of days later for lunch. I really liked him. Thought he would make a great partner FOR MY SISTER....
Met him a second time and a third and said to heck with introducing him to anyone. I thought " I really like this man"...... NOW it seems to be mutual. He has become the love of my life. That ONE HONEST MAN that I have been looking for.
Isn't life strange. I had deleted all the paying sites...had decided to get off the internet and forget it. Then WHAM there he is.
Don't give up....MEET PEOPLE IN PERSON.... get your LOCAL FORUMS active so you can meet people CLOSE.... People complain about long distance, but YOU have the PERFECT tool HERE to meet people locally....
Everyone can sit home on their computers forever, but if your seriously wanting to meet the love of your live FIND them HERE and then meet in person. Meet everyone as a friend, NOT AS A DATE... then if there is no chemistry...you still have a FRIEND....
GOOD LUCK from BOTH of us....