Hi lonlyhart78 - I'm sorry to hear that. In time you heal. This is your season to concentrate on you and if you have children, then them. Do move on. It’s easy when a spouse dies. We mourn. But when there is a divorce, it’s hard, but in a way we have to mourn for the end of the relationship. Look back on your relationship and figure out what you learned from it, what you can take with you in life.
I’m speaking from my experience. For me I became more independent knowing I could do it on my own. I went to school, took fun classes and classes to get my degree. I had fun with my kids. Also, girl friends. There’s a saying which I think is true. All women should have girl friends because they will be there always. Dance as if no one is looking.
Ok here's one I think I still know the punch line to.
A man was riding his motorcycle when he heard a voice from above call out his name. The man looked around and the voice said, "I am God, and I will grant you a wish.”
The man in turn said, "God, I love riding my motorcycle, would you build me a highway from here, California, to Hawaii?
God, answered the man, “Oh, come on, that’s easy, surly, you can think of a better wish?”
“Well”, the man said with some thought, “I really would like to have the tools to better understand a woman.”
God, took a minute to reply, and said, “One lane or two?”
I too, have a butt and curves. I love being a woman. I've come to the conclusion any man who wants us gals to be really skinny; straight up and down; actually, wants a boy.
MVGCOk - MoVal Gorgeous Chick -okay lol not really. I was on another site and every screen name I put in was already used and I didn't want to put a number behind it (999). (I like being original). Actually, it's a club here in MoVal.
Wow - I have found the opposite. I, as a woman, would prefer email a week or so, and phone then meet. It's the guys that seem to want to phone and meet, prompto.
Ahhhhh, iking4afrnd; that's very observant, women wanting to be treated with love and care. I'm noticing lately, that men are not taking the time for that. Where are the old days of courting and wooing. You are cool.
It seems that a lot are looking for quickies, ah, I mean are just players. Living for the moment not looking at the long term. If I had to chose a quality in the other person, it would be to be non-judgemental. What quality would I chose? More party time/spend money now or Down to earth? Ummmm, can't I have both? I would rate myself as a 6.
Not married. But, boy, it just blows me out of the water when I hear about a married woman having an affair. I mean, you got one, take care of him leave the other to us single ladies, unless he too, is married. Oh, brother.
Guys - what do you think about girls who wear glasses? If you saw a picture with or without which would you go to? I will post my picture without, as it seems to get a better viewing oppose to when I use the one with my glasses as the primary picture. I usually, will have that picture for viewing as well. Umm, I'm taking a pole here, yeah, that's the ticket.
I couldn't read your profile to commend. Hey, where's your picture? That's interesting that a man didn't get a reply. I and some of my friends have had the same problem from men. I will always reply to someone as I feel that is the polite thing to do, then go from there, at least a friend/pen pal.
Hope you all meet nicer people here than I have. I am delting my profile soon...have been insulted once too many times here. Plentyoffish.com have nicer folks
I'm new to this site. Wow, I can't understand why people would insult. We're all here looking for friendship and hopefully, a someone. I don't know about POF, as I just deleted myself off that site. As a woman, it seemed I had to wait for the man to contact me. Any of the ones who I tried to contact just read and deleted. At least be nice and say "Hey, I read, but am not interested." I love those who say, "I'm easy going, I want someone nice, etc., etc." Hey, right.
RE: If anyone wants to know
Boy, Ulimaroa - I'm impressed with all the men that have responsed to you. It's true men and food go together.