I agree with Detente, you may need to see a therapist. Maybe go to your doctor and he can recommend someone. Just be careful about taking any medication. Imassquirly, not knowing your faith or belief, pray for those involved, ask for peace of mind.
I am so happy for you. I think I may have found my honey. But you are right, sometimes our sweethearts are in plain view.
It reminds me of my daughter-in-law who shared with me, her complaining to her friend about not finding her love. Her friend said, "well, look under your nose".
Well, she looked down and found her husband, my son. He's 5" shorter and 5 years younger and they have been together for about 8 years.
Oh Brother I'm reading this and couldn't find the reference. Iverphil, as noted by another, you need to state what was false. Geezzzz, here I am wasting my time.....stupid Vicki.....bad
That could be a tough one as I am older and have assets to protect as hopefully he would too. I would probably live with the man. I have met a couple of ladies were widowed and left with money. One didn't have to ever work again. She married her second husband and he drain her of everything. It was sad as she walked with a walker and had to work. She told me not to do what she did. She was devastated.
Boy that is hard. But figure out the good and bad of both. Also, do they have an attraction for you. Is one more attracted to you than the other. Which one is more reliable? Which one is more the communicator? Which one would you feel like jumping thier bones (so to speak)? Make a list.
Thank you for the comments. Yes, this is something I went through and I believe we all do at some point in our lives. If anything came of it, I got back into writing.
There are nice girls, it's just you have to weed out the scary ones, the ones that have emotional baggage, and God's anything else and just maybe you will be left with a couple. You can start here with me as a good example.
I thought about this very same question. No, I wouldn't. Because if they weren't interested in knowing me in the beginning, then I don't want them. There's a couple of men of whom I've showed interest and if they come around all of a sudden wanting to start something then they are really going to have to work at it and show me they care and want to have something with me; flowers, etc. the whole nine yards.
He wanted to spread his wings, however, in the end he did as his family wanted. If I were the girlfriend I would get him for child support or let his mommy and daddy know they have a grandchild. I would make his life "he*l".
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it's me, it's me...must be, must it?
RE: I need help (this is very grusome)
I agree with Detente, you may need to see a therapist. Maybe go to your doctor and he can recommend someone. Just be careful about taking any medication. Imassquirly, not knowing your faith or belief, pray for those involved, ask for peace of mind.