I don't think those "rules" apply anymore. Personally I hope she approaches first, I'm extremely shy. I think if women approached first that it means they are confident in themselves, which many guys are looking for. I only make the first move if there is something about the profile that catches my eye.
Why is there no Reno/Sparks people?
Most Reno/Sparks people have not been online in over a month, What is going on people?