Yea you just have to keep ignoring him. Even calling or answering his call to tell him you are not interested, feeds into his game. Eventually (hopefully) he will give up.
When I meet someone new I feel conversation is key. Talking about current events, what happened during their day, or even the weather. I think that morals and views become apparent when conversing on small things. Light chit chat can lead to heavier topics but leave room to return to small talk. I don't like putting someone on the spot or make them feel like they are on an interview. I also don't want to them to tell me what they think I want to hear. It takes time to really get to know someone, a hindrance in this fast paced world we occupy.
I'm desperate too. But you have to be at least 6'2", been married but only once, drive a 2004 or newer vehicle, like ponies, bunnies, and chipmunks, wear Levi's, be clean shaven, and be able to recite at least one poem by Edgar Alan Poe.
I am confused Cristina you start a thread about trauma and new love then have a battle with one poster and an ongoing conversation that could be held on IM, phone, or email about hair so in essence hi jack your own thread, then you make a disparaging remark regarding another poster. Perhaps I am not really that confused after all.
Depends on how down and how nice is the weather. If the weather is crappy I simply wallow in my self pity, curl up with the remote, a cushy pillow, and a bowl of ice cream. On a beautiful day I will visit friends, a nearby museum which has a nice garden, a stroll through town, or a walk through an orchard or flea market.
It could be true that said gentleman is out of your league but it is my understanding that he said this simply by looking at your picture. That is unfair; to you and also to himself. The only ones I would consider out of my league are those whom I could not communicate with on an emotional or intellectual level.
Over the summer I was out at a neighborhood club and a woman I know had on the same blouse as I. All my friends laughed when I said I was going home to change. I went to her and said"Amy you have excellent taste in clothes" I left out the part about how much better I looked.
You just have to rise above that. Why do you knock yourself so? Just because someone doesn't agree with you or has a different point of view doesn't mean you are wrong or that you don't fit in. Become more comfortable with yourself first then allow others to see the wonderful you.
If this is her user name surely she has a sense of humor. She would probably join in the thread. Hey OP maybe you should contact her and ask her to join us.
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RE: Ex boyfriends..
Yea you just have to keep ignoring him. Even calling or answering his call to tell him you are not interested, feeds into his game. Eventually (hopefully) he will give up.