I have seen people not being serious in their efforts. Everything in life requires effort. In essence, it is cause and effect, universal law,very simple to understand.You put in the effort, you will get the results. For women looking for good men, make the effort of staying true to your own values.
I found mostly liars on CS so unfortunately, my experience has been negative but that is not to say that there are no gentlemen on this website. There are some really good people on CS.
I am sure, there are good men and good women out there, but if no one is willing to make the effort to overcome the everyday challenges/barriers of thinking and not hide behind excuses, it will stay this way "No good men/women out there". The first step is to make the effort to speak the truth.
No, it is not normal to exchange numbers and ask you to call them. That shows they aren't putting any thought and energy in getting to know you. I won't say its old fashioned but it shows how little their minds are into getting to know the person.
Yes, it happened to me. He said that I care and love too much. Now I realized as excited I was to see him, his expressions were cold and my efforts were one sided. I'm still struggling to move on. I want to just know why everyone wants love but when it is given, people take it for granted?
RE: Good Men & Good Women
I wish you the sameI just hope we all can find now what we are looking for
and retire from CS