It will most likely be magical for the two of you..and once you give each other that first kiss and hug there will be no more nervousness!
I met a guy last year on here and we had lunch but then nothing more...he never called again..he wnt back to his ex..but he was much better looking in person!
Then Wednesday I met Erickissesdeeply..we are just friends but meeting him after talking to him was truly amazing..he is much better looking in person as well but he was still the nice sweet guy as always..didn't have much time but he was sweet enough to drive a bit to meet me and southernbrat! Have a friend for life now I hope, in both of them!
So, just relax .. be yourself..don't drink too many whiskeys! You want him to know the real you! Which he already adores!
I loved that song while skating at the rolladium but the words didn't hit me until I went out on the first date with a man I had been talking to online and the phone..we parted after a wonderful lunch..5 minutes after leaving he called me on my cell phone and asked if I could turn back around..unfortunately I couldn't..this song came on and wow..words hit me like a brick.....
To this day we are the best of friends..didn't work out as anything more but I adore him and the song!
Yes it does...been there and done that!....and if either one of you weren't serious and I do mean serious about relocating...then skype would be suffice...it is so hard to tell yourself you are being scammed...but it does happen and unless you have a home phone or cell phone...how do you know that they are really living in that country or if they are married...or even if that is them in the pic..have you asked him to webcam? I asked the "scammer" and he refused...another red flag
nope not needy...it would be a must from the beginning..told a guy last week that is what we had to have together...he only wanted to instant message me..he refused to give me his number...fred flags everywhere!
To feel secure and they live afar, I would need daily phone calls...yes daily..it tells me I am in his thoughts! Even living near, a phone call to say I am thinking of you is so reassuring
Asking for what I need would make me sound "needy"..I don't know what I need..I know what I want and that is hugs, kisses, and communication!
It is a losing battle when he won't compromise any of the above! Been through it many a time...when the calls stops, that pretty much tells it all!
RE: How far are you willing to travel to meet someone?
I have traveled the half-way mark...not sure exactly if I would set a limit