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Dec 30, 2007 4:11 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Gothbabe
GothbabeGothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa59 Threads 2 Polls 1,623 Posts
Can you give us some pointers on what to expect when the first meeting finally arrives? What were your thoughts right before the meeting and after? Were you nervous, excited?

Was the person what you expected him/her to be? What did you talk about and was there a moment of silence when neither one of you had anything to say or didn't know what to say?
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Dec 30, 2007 4:13 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
Good idea Babykiss
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Dec 30, 2007 4:14 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
Sweetheart you'll do fine James is a fine gentleman who will fill in the spaces naturally when you are at a loss just like you'll do for him. Any moment of silence that remains will be golden.

Markangel

Just believe in yourself, James will do the same and Faith will provide the rest.

God Bless...the both of you!
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Dec 30, 2007 4:16 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
Thank you so much Mark, you have got to be one of the nicest people I have met on this site Bro. God bless you to cheers
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Dec 30, 2007 4:18 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
I have to share much of the credit here with the fine shining examples here that keep me focused on the trail ahead.. and provide the spark to drawn me back to the flames of hope and faith myself. You are one such shining beacon along with your lovely better half...

Markangel
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Dec 30, 2007 4:19 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
I will catch you when you fall Lover, and no worries about words I think I will be a bit tongue tied as well. If it gets to bad I will just have to carry you back to my house kiss
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Dec 30, 2007 4:23 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Gothbabe
GothbabeGothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa59 Threads 2 Polls 1,623 Posts
That is so true Mark......thanks for your remarkable insight and friendship.

hug
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Dec 30, 2007 4:26 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I didn't know you guys were meeting. If you're not nervous, then you're not quite human. All my best.

Leo
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Dec 30, 2007 4:26 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
Honestly, we just drank a ton of beer and watched a blues band when I met a person from CS. It was a good time, and I was nervous for the first
2 minutes. But that all fades away, and it's like talking to an old friend.




At least, that's the way it was for me.laugh
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Dec 30, 2007 4:27 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
If you insist on paying me back just provide the light you share a few moments here and there to shine here and guide others to what might be if they only believe. Too many hurt souls here with nothing but shadows about them. Burn away their doubts with your example.

That is all I ask.

Markangel
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Dec 30, 2007 4:29 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Gothbabe
GothbabeGothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa59 Threads 2 Polls 1,623 Posts
mmmm.......most of the time alcohol seem to take away that little bit of nervousness. Maybe I'll have some whisky on the plane to make me more relaxed

Thanks for sharing Kev.....
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Dec 30, 2007 4:31 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
No problem! Just don't over do it on the whiskey!! rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Dec 30, 2007 4:35 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Gothbabe
GothbabeGothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa59 Threads 2 Polls 1,623 Posts
...and it's really not much to ask

It might work if only those hurt souls would open their hearts and minds a little more and learn to forgive and forget. They should also realize that we are in the present, the past is long gone and nothing can be done to change it, except for not making the same mistakes again. The future is what we make of it...good or bad, that's up to us.
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Dec 30, 2007 4:43 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
Ive never done it ...

not via the internet..

but I believe the two of you will be A OK...

My thoughts are...

just remember you are both meeting a friend...

enjoy that side of it...

and the rest is a bonus.....

to the two of you....hug kiss wine
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Dec 30, 2007 4:44 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
HvnsentBabs
HvnsentBabsHvnsentBabsDover, Delaware USA98 Posts
The first time I met my ex I had felt the same way. I was so nervous that my hands were shaking. I wasn't sure what I would say and I didn't want to make any mistakes.
When he arrived it was with flowers in hand. As he walked toward me my stomach was in knots. Most of the nervousness left after we said hello.
I knew that he was on the shy side in person. We had so much to say that we talked for over 7 hours. One conversation would always lead to another.
I am sure the both of you will be just fine and it will so natural. Good Luck to you both.
cheering
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Dec 30, 2007 4:49 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
Plus, you should make out. That helps quell the nervousness quite a bit.rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 30, 2007 4:49 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Gothbabe
GothbabeGothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa59 Threads 2 Polls 1,623 Posts
Hey girl!!!!! wave

It's so nice seeing you again....thanks for sharing

hug
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Dec 30, 2007 4:50 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Gothbabe
GothbabeGothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa59 Threads 2 Polls 1,623 Posts
LOL!!!!.........*whispering* I intend to
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Dec 30, 2007 4:50 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Well I know i'm single now, but I met someone from here, I wasn't really nervious, because we talked for quite some time before we met.. I was excited about the meeting.. We spent four wanderful days and nights together... and everything went fine.. we decided that we really wanted to be together from then on, so two months later after our first meeting I relocated to where she was, and we began building a life together.. we really had something that was wonderful I believed, but it takes true commitment and working together to make things last..

So my advice for the two of you for what it's worth, would be communication is the key, if something is bothering you don't hold it in, talk about what the problem is, and both of you work together to make this wonderful relationship you have last.. I hope that helps..

Happy for you two..cheers
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Dec 30, 2007 4:50 AM CST Calling all CS Couples
kevduf
kevdufkevdufColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 1,386 Posts
Awwwwww yeah!!!grin applause
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