Calling all CS Couples ( Archived) (45)

Thank you for sharing this.......

The input from you guys really mean a lot to us. That way we know we're not the first couple to do this and we're certainly not the last.

I'll try and take it easy with the whiskies though....can't promise anything LOL

You guys are great!!!!!!!

For some reason women seem to get more "tensed up" than men, I think? I've seen women have their hands shaking from being so nervous. Remember, you're not meeting God...just another person.

When I was doing "meet and greets" on a somewhat regular basis, my attitude was; either they will like me or they won't. The next thought was...what's the worse thing that can happen..... "nothing".

Might walk away with a good friend though...if not, the world doesn't end.

JMO

Exactly, that attitude is the right one to have! You really are just meeting another person, who either will or will not like you. So I'm like you, I just go with it, and if she doesn't like me, that's her problem!


Good post!

Men don't understand, sometime to us you do seem like a God......I think that I would be less nervous meeting God in person, after all he's seen me do all my bad deeds as well as good ones, and he loves me for who I am Can't say the same about men though.

As for the op, I'm sure that you two will be wonderful! I have no doubt about it.

I almost met someone on here, but I got to know him too well over the net and found out that he wasn't my cup of tea


alright, I lied.......I was afraid he wouldn't like me....... so I bailed. Now he hates me what's a girl to do???

tell me who he is and we gang up on him

All I can say is be yourself, relax, enjoy and it will be fine. I've met a few people from this site and they have all (with the exception of the first) been absolutely wonderful.

Enjoy the anticipation and excitement leading up to the moment you meet. I can assure you, you will both be too excited to worry about moments of silence.

Best of luck and happiness for your futures!

I met someone once, yeears ago.

We had been *speaking* on-line for MONTHSS.. BUTTTT.. only a few times one the phone.

I HAD *made plans* with him.. and I flew to Chicago (tho he was a Brit) to meet him..

and the split SECOND I clapped eyes on him at the airport. I knew I had made a huuuge mistake. (I don't mean looks)..

He was FILTHY... not work dirty.. like filthy stinky DURTY.

His house was a DUMP... mess and crap everywhere.. he had known for MONTHS I was coming.. and he couldn't even pick up the 50 (I kid you not!) crushed Malboro packs (and tissues!! Eww) off the floor around his Pc.

He ALSO had BIG blown up pictures of me all strewn over his bed. (Yeeeash)

He was TOTALLY different to how he had come across on all those months.. seeing him walk talk and move.. was soooo *wrong*... not at ALL what I had *Imagined* him to be. He was Staggeringly in debt (which He didn't tell me about).. and his utilities were being cut off one by one while I was there. (SO *I* was paying them) He didn't even have ANYTHING to feed his dog.


But I really do think... that part of the KEY to that mistake was NOT spending more time with him on the phone.. I'm sure I would have backed out waaaaaaaayy sooner.

Anyhooo.. that's what happened to me.

I am farrrr more suspicious of meeting a potential 'Partner' on-line now. I even background and criminal records check them. As well as everything else I can find out to make sure they are being honest with me.

you already know who he is remember, you called him an a**hole........I just had to one up his assholemanship is all...

background and criminal records,

did i really,not me surely