Honesty What is it worth to you...???? ( Archived) (115)

Dec 30, 2007 4:31 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
EricKissesDeeply
EricKissesDeeplyEricKissesDeeplyThe Mountains, USA15 Threads 1 Polls 1,146 Posts
I Read it so many times...

I have done a thread asking this before, And found it was the Number one thing required for any relations.


Now i ask ,If you give your full honesty and hide nothing in your life...

And are told that nothing you say is believed and you are not trusted...

What do you think?

Could you or would you want to be close to someone who feels you are nothing But a liar and a player.... With no proof either exsists????
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:35 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Solitarius
SolitariusSolitariusSalem, Indiana USA5 Threads 589 Posts
Nope, not at all, even considering they came crawling back after they found out the truth! If a person does not trust me enough to believe me then I will not trust them with my heart!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:35 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
scold snooty scold

this is not the place, my friend...you live and learn
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:38 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
dunno confused
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:38 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
Honesty is the best policy,communication breakdown is the big problem online everything works itself out Ericthumbs up
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:39 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
If your 100% honest and someone doesn't believe it then there's no point in a relationship.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:40 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
EricKissesDeeply
EricKissesDeeplyEricKissesDeeplyThe Mountains, USA15 Threads 1 Polls 1,146 Posts
Live what?
Someone spouting all kinds of stuff to me ...and me believing every word just to have them tell me they believe notinhg i have said????

Tell me what is the lesson in that.
To Not Love and not want someone...
To not care and wish to be all you can...
to Not what....

I NEVER LIED TO ANYONE FOR NO REASON...

If i say someone is pretty...in my eyes they are
Admireable
Lovely ,caring,friendly
Whatever i say i mean... i have never tried to be anything I'am not with anyone ANYONE!

So what the lesson please do tell.
That Love is false and our hearts only lie to us?????
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:40 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
Honesty is number one for me....I think you need to move on, say Next!!!

You know, along with Honesty comes Communication....

and just like men, women say they want communication until they have to use it....then its not returning phone calls or just taking your name off their friend list with no explanation....or deleting your emails.....it happens both ways male & female alike....

I just want to find one that actually lives Honesty, Communication, Respect
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:42 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
AutumR
AutumRAutumRover looking a meadow, Louth Ireland14 Threads 883 Posts
~~~Exactly!! thumbs up
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:44 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Honesty is everything to me.. essential for trust... an if I can't trust a person then it is unlikely that I will ever want to be with that person...smile

Of course u can't expect to every little thing about them.. cause u need some mystery.. just the important stuff. hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:44 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
No....Honesty is everything...BUT sometimes there are reasons why someone has doubts....If actions don't match words...It's easy to doubt and have questions!!!!!!!!

conversing conversing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:45 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
OMG!

no you keep ur business to you and yours, you dont bring this up in a public forum. you work it out between yourselves.

i would never think of doing this....its pointless..what is this thread really gonna accomplish? ask yourself that?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:46 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
EricKissesDeeply
EricKissesDeeplyEricKissesDeeplyThe Mountains, USA15 Threads 1 Polls 1,146 Posts
Thank You Men...

Maybe i do not understand women... But i do not lie to them... and cannot accept anyone who thinks I'am
unable to tell the truth when i have my heart invested into it.


I do not care who i make as enemies... because if anyone thinks me a liar , i never were friends with them in the first place.

i have no time to fill my socail life with hate,and deceit. Even online Irishman1thumbs up

I Forgive of these things but i cannot turn my back on them.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:46 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
But you lied to me Aries... On my fan list I'm so sure and after all the hopes I had pinned on that...well I'm crushed... At least the fact that your still here and posting has cleared up any doubts I had...grin

Markangel
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:46 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
countrygirl62
countrygirl62countrygirl62Taylorsville, Utah USA13 Threads 2 Polls 545 Posts
Yes, trust takes time, how do they know your telling the truth?

Some people have been hurt, and tend to be pessimistic, to protect themselves, they expect less, and if they get more, they are happier.

Did they acutally come out and say your a player, and a liar?? Why would they say this??

Some times I believe that when some one says they love me and have not met me?

or, I wouldn't do that? and haven't even met me, and I have talked to them for 2 seconds.conversing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:47 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
EricKissesDeeply
EricKissesDeeplyEricKissesDeeplyThe Mountains, USA15 Threads 1 Polls 1,146 Posts
This thread will accomplish Nothing...She has already hung up the phone hours ago leaving me to believe she feels me as a player and a liar....

She has already decided it not of any worth...so what does it matter.
In the end it will just be another lie by me i suppose
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:49 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
jodigirlsfree
jodigirlsfreejodigirlsfreeConway, South Carolina USA48 Threads 1,843 Posts
honesty and trust are 2 differrent things....I can be honest with someone and still not trust them...trust is something that takes time and honesty is something that should not even take thought...It is one of the most important things without it trust cannot be built...JMOhug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:49 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
hug hug hug

not much more I can say!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:50 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
Eric I have read many many many posts here by you my friend and I do not for one second feel that you are a player or a liar or deceitful by any means. I trust you brother. You are a good man and whoever does not see this is just fooling themselves. Strength in numbers my friend don't let this moment isolate you from us or yourself.

Markangel
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 30, 2007 4:52 PM CST Honesty What is it worth to you...????
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
:oops: didn't know there was a fan list on this thing.. will add myself now doh meant what I said, was genuinely impressed by your post..so still ur fan.. hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

3,832 Views
114 Comments
by EricKissesDeeply (15 Threads)
in Advice
Created: Dec 2007
Last Viewed: 9 hrs ago
Last Commented: Jan 2008

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here