Could be an individual interpertation.. Why can't a person just answer the op with their experience instead of tearing the op's forum apart and look for hidden meanings??
Meh..don't worry about it. People will argue about anything and preach to hear their own voices....errr..in this case read their own voices.. oh you know what I mean..
I think debate is healthy and people should agree to disagree but there are some who never want to see things from any other perspective then their own. I'm always glad when these people show their true selves and in the end of the day they make themselves out to be fools.
It's called life. With everything, there is a risk. You play the stock market you risk losing money, you play with love and you risk getting hurt. I'd rather take chances and deal with loss and hurt and move on then to sit alone and wonder "what if"
I have two boys and I have never told them to hold back tears etc. but I have noticed that if one of them gets hurt, he will try not to cry and I tell him that it's ok, if he feels the need to cry then just let it go and then they feel comfortable enough to do so. It's almost like they are embarassed to show that emotion especially if in a public venue.
I think meeting someone with rotting teeth would be hard not to notice. I would definitely get to know them before writing them off because teeth can always be fixed but stupid can't.
wow...men and their d*ck will mess things up all the time! I can see how she thought they grew apart, people change over 23 years and sometimes not together but to leave for someone else is not cool.
How much more do you think we'll have to write before someones thread is permanently bumped
It was but I talked to my brother-in-law and told him that I am neutral and that she is family and I have to help her but still adore him. Just wish she was stronger..
My sister met her husband at the age of 15. They got married and have two daughters. After 23 years of marriage, she has had an affair with her personal trainer.. . At first she told me she was leaving her husband because they grew apart after 23 years of marriage, and I believed her and supported her. She swore it had nothing to do with current "boyfriend". I supported her and helped her buy a house, contact a lawyer and listen to her when she needed support. One night she shows up at my door having a huge anxiety attack, saying she can't leave her husband(who btw I adore)she can't live in the house alone etc.? I spent two hours walking around town to calm her anxiety. Asked her is she wanted to be in an unhappy marriage or wanted to be on her own happy? She was terrified and I couldn't understand the severe re-action. Finally, she tells me her "boyfriend" dumped her. SHE lied about not leaving for someone else and when that someone else abandoned her she freaked out, too scared to be on her own. I told her she needs to know what she really wants and that she should be on her own before she moves on to another. She essentially left home, to her hubby, and now to her bf! As it stands now, she is moving out on her own but with the hopes that the "bf" will change his mind.
But to flip the tables a little.....I have to admit there has been nights..when I haven't exactly fulfilled my "girlfriend" duties...and errr...passed on a few intimacies in order to get the show on.
This is interesting. In all my years of being single I have never felt that anyone was feeling pity for me or that I was being judged for not having a man. It shocks me that woman in this day and age still get treated like that!!!! I thought we as a society had made progress.
I think it depends. Would I rather suffer the emotional pain of a relationship break up or have my arm ripped off?? Pain in any sense unwanted and hurts.
I was being dramatic. I never let what happens in my past effect my days but sometimes your self-conscious has a way of replaying your past in your dreams.
RE: Arguing for the sake of arguing.