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Thanx everyone for your support. I know I will be absolutely fine, just sad I had to give up on someone, I hate doing that.

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Thanx R..I took a knock but will get back on with things.

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Thanx Gg. It was a tough decision and one I kept putting off in hopes that he would change. His family is trying to get him into counseling and I hope for his sake he does. I appreciate your support.

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I just recently ended my engagement to an amazing man. He is sweet, caring, hard worker, great dad but..when we would have arguments like most couples do, he would go into a rage and start calling me every profanity there is, even with his kids around, and I'd end up throwing him out. I just can't be with someone who can't control their anger. I spent the last few days thinking "Is there something I could have done to help?" In the end, as much as it hurts, I had to end the relationship. Is it not reasonable to expect a couple to fight without it escalating into rage?? Please tell me I'm not the only one to experience this!!

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

I agree. The window only gives us limited insight to a person. Profile are a building block to ascertain who that person may be but in the end only time and face to face will show the persons true self.

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

Ooooo...there's a chance we can "get lucky" here...where do I sign up..

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

I think what people do and say are windows into who that person is. Especially if that person DOES what he or she SAYS..then that's a bonus

RE: It's been a year already...amazing

A year already!?!?! Wow..congrads you two love birds!!!

RE: Women are impossible

Pffft...so sue us for not wanting to settle.

RE: How to beat your wife

Maybe I misheard this..and I truly hope I did..but at one point did he say "You shouldn't beat her as hard as an animal or a child"

RE: have u ever played Double?

Nope. I have no reason to post under anyone but me, I have nothing to hide........so stop looking...

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on a blade for ya,
I'd jump in front of a train for ya,
You know I'd do anything for ya.

But I won't lose weight for ya ...

RE: Something to think about....

I have no need to be anonymous because I have nothing to hide. People want to spend their time being venomous then so be it. If fighting is what they want to fill their life with then how sad for them. If they want to come here and pick on members who I am friends with then I will get defensive and defend that person because bullies should never be allowed to get away with this type of behavior.

RE: To: Snow White

RE: CS Mafia

There's a CS mafia!! That explains why I wake up every morning with an emoticon head in my bed...

RE: Would you travel halfway around the world for someone you know from here?

Lol..it was a joke sweety...I guess you don't remember The Shovel..the ex con who scared the crap out of Movin'
I agree online love doesn't exist till the people fall in love face to face

RE: Would you travel halfway around the world for someone you know from here?

I don't know about that V..I did fall hard for "the Shovel"

RE: Would you travel halfway around the world for someone you know from here?

I'm not sure if I'd travel half way around the world but am damn sure I wouldn't send him money.

RE: which pain is tolerable for u?

Pain is pain. Emotional and physical pain can both be detrimental. Actually, emotional pain can manifest itself as physical pain. Either way..they both suck and I avoid both.

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

All I got out of that was you calling me a turtle...

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

Do it or feel my wrath!!!
Don't think the world would be boring..life's what you make it!

RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread

Not you too!! His PINKY FINGER








perverts

RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread

Oh sh8t..not THAT pinky





(he probably pulls that one out after a couple though)

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread

pffft..probably doesn't even hold his pinky out while drinking it from the bottle..

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

It's healthy to disagree with your partner. No two people will share the same opinion about everything. But to conform..never! Either accept who I am and what I stand for or learn to live harmoniously with it but by no means try to change me. The best lover is one who loves you for who you are and helps you grow by showing you different experiences and points of view and allowing you to form your own opinion, even if it's different then his own.

RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread

No glass?!? You barbarian!!

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

All is groovy and cosmically aligned over here. How goes things with you sweetie?

RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread

Boban!!! I'm taller than 3 inches...

RE: Is it reasonable to ask or expect a partner to change?

Oh nooooo...no Charlie Sheenisms!!!