I also went thru that phase. Luckily I came across the laughter behind my back, and stopped being so friendly. They were trying to walk all over me, but did not get it right.
Unfortunately for then I don't follow anything, and do my own thing. So no-one is worth listening to, if they don't support u
Interesting turn of subject. Yes earthly goods must be given away before death, then u know that person got it and know it's theirs.
In the year before my mom's death she send me everything she knew I would appreciate. She knew the 3 vultures left, will grab everything, and they did, my antiques (just mine) as well, with some stupid excuse.
I wanted to put the police on them, but decided the wheel turns, and I will get it back, doing nothing.
I have a soulmate of 17 years now almost. He's just him. I do find fault with him at times, but just ignore it after, but then again I'm like that with everyone I like. That will most probably include u too !
Do u recon urself lucky ?
Just put ur foot down. If u change the phrase around it does not reverse the meaning necessarily !