People that "Skinner" have such a dire need for attention, that 99.9999...% of the time, the stories they tell all their pals, r so enhanced, that they story does not exist anymore.....
How often some people tell jokes, with the nasty intention of actually pointing a finger, at one person, or many....
Some people laugh at themselves, it is said, but I have never really come across one like that, What is said, and then done, r rarely the one and same....
We do appear to have very similar backgrounds, It has given me a solid backbone, no crap, no lies, extremely responsible, and don't take people at face value always, etc
I have heard lots of rumours, of people using me as an example, in my home life and work life. I'm very proud of myself, for the abilities to get this far. I never give up on something/one I feel deserves it.....
U purposefully misunderstand, I c. It is a battle being a single woman, that had always provided for the household, in all ways. I work very hard, to support my kids, used to be ex husband, and animals. All the pressure is on me. I have very strong beliefs, in humans surpassing anyone's expectations. I will always push myself to do better always, not to please outsiders, but to enhance life for my family. I have proven myself, but cannot see me ever stopping, until I just can't anymore. That to me is fulfilment, of urself and ur capabilities. Nothing is ever really impossible, u just have to believe in urself, even tho no-one else does, but who cares about other peoples expectations, which r way below urs ? Always trust in urself, and there is No End......
If ur referring to people like me, there r very little of us, and when u refer to others, everyone make their life as it suits them best, if that does not work, they'll find another way, where some will hit the jackpot, and others on the side of the road.
I live in a country, very much like all others, and the same basic rules apply everywhere, not just in ur country. I have had to fight from a very early age, to get the mentality, to reach what I have become. It has not been even slightly easy. I'm a born and made fighter..... R U....?
Ur reaction to a bully, depends on how much power they wield in that particular situation, and how much power u award them over u.
A very important girl, in high school, used to put me down, up until she required my Accountancy book, for marks in the year. I gave her my answers, and that was the last of her bullying me.
It is very amusing, since I think most of us had been bullied by them, and some turned out to be bullies themselves after, and others regarded them as they should be...….
I do pull my punches when I sense that someone is soft natured, as I tend to only go for the bullies, but I do tell the others off sometimes as well.....
I actually don't like hurting people at all, and will only complain about those that can handle it.....
That is why I'm so straight forward:- I will tell u to ur face, everything I have to say about u, and most times, I would say nothing at all..... People r what they r, and u or anyone for that matter, can do Nothing about it, even if u try,,,,,,
The joke is on U.....
When meeting new people I'm always positively inclined towards them....Later u might find out, that they r not so nice after all....