Well, yeah, I know it sounds foolish but at the time seemed the right thing to do...I lost 20.000 euros to a doctor when I helped him set up his business and another 20.000 euros was put in a joint venture with my ex boyfriend.....makes sense? it did at the time. I am still in touch with both but they don't have a penny to rub together, so what can I do?
Smaller amounts were lent to so-called friends who's friendship has died a death somewhere along the line and no, I did not get it back....
As to lending books, been there, done that....I don't ask for money but I DO write down the date and WHO I loan the book to...that way I usually remember to ask for it back...
Maybe don't reject them too obviously...just reply, say thanks and let them die a death slowly....then you have more chance on them voting a 10 for you
I would say the same as I would to any man....be attentive, make the lady feel special, show interest without being desperate, make sure you look "well maintained", i.e. well dressed, groomed and that you smell good ;-), be well-behaved...no farting or burping LOL
Why would you think a black man needs to do different things to be with a woman then a white man would? It may be true that not all white ladies want to be with a black man but they would make it clear to you right from the start..
I speak from experience.... I have lost count of the amount of people who owe me money, ranging from 50 euros to 20.000 euros....ah well...too late to cry about it now...
HONEST REPLY? I am the fool that would give it to him...and have done on several occassions in the past. Was it the right thing to do...at hindsight...NO....
Ofcourse it is flattering but if you are looking for a serious relationship the age gap will eventually be a problem. Take children for example. I dated a guy for 3 years, he was 11 years younger and always swore that having children was not an issue, that he wanted me and would be happy to forgo that part of his life. HOWEVER, when I broke up with him...I got the full works...how could I be so selfish...he had wasted 3 years of his life with me, could have had children, how could I do this to him......etc etc....
So, no, contrary to what you would think, I don't go back there...UNLESS OFCOURSE...the younger guy already HAS children of his own..now that would make a difference...
Oh and by the way...on that photo of yours that says 'Cheers' you are a little too skinny, make sure there is something for us older ladies to grab hold of OK?
Why are so many young men interested in 'older' women these days?
REALLY ELLEY????and why don't you share it with us then??