Yes we met here & have been talking regularly, he is only just ova an hour away so its going ok for now .he works away weekdays,but sent me a Valentine so that was nice just taking things slow but hoping for a nice w/end .
Anyway your shot & im lining up some slammers for us ...
Hi CS members well I thought ide start a thread ...
Be a little uplifting,
We are all here for the same reasons basically to find someone awesome ,maybee make new friends ,or just connect with others who are single & know what we are going through.
Ive only been with CS a short time but there are definatley some gr8 people involed with this site
Advise ,welcomes ,understanding flow freely here ,I think I get the feeling there are some out there in the forums who really like some others its a bit like reading between the lines watching the banter going on. Ide like to ...In honor of Valenties ,take the time to say thanks for all the advise , friendship & caring that has been shown to me since joining . There are a few poeple who,s sdvise has meant alot to me, Jimi is gr8 been a good friend helped me out heaps, gave me the heads up,i also like the feed back given by Just love flowers & Rochy is so straight up I really appriciate him,ofcourse the NZ quarters imput is valued greatly .Shoutin you all free drinks at Happy Hour friday nite.
If youve got something nice to say to someone who has made you feel better or helped you in some small way on this site take the time tonight after all it is Valentines sooooo share the love.........
What im saying is if you cant say whats on your mind honestly without him taking it to heart,enough to cease all contact immediatley,then maybee he wasnt as emotionally available as he seemed to be . Thats a pretty big thing to overcome liberty .I mean if he does come back are you going to be walking on eggshells? Having to watch how you say things to him ? Making sure you dont upset him or he might just take off? Once something Huge happens like this ....its really really hard to go back ,the dynamics have changed ,sad as that is, I think you know its true.I do wish you all the happiness for the furure but in any relationship you have to be able to be yourself ,say whats on your mind & be confident that you can without this sort of thing happening.
Maybee he has the mindset of "when the cracks start appearing its time to bail" I do!!! At least that way you keep the good memories alive to carry on into the future.
All the chasing in the world isnt going to get him back,hes made his choice now you gotta make yours
Gee Arty,I just think your plain Lucky...Lucky you didnt marry the first week. Your actions only go to show your a sweet guy & you wear your heart on your sleeve. I think the advise given before me is accurate take time ,meet first, cyber chatting/dating is surreal,intense& sometimes doesnt reflect peoples true motives. If you look at it more as a place to meet rather than a place to fall in love be a better way to protect your heart.
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Yes we met here & have been talking regularly, he is only just ova an hour away so its going ok for now .he works away weekdays,but sent me a Valentine so that was nice just taking things slow but hoping for a nice w/end .Anyway your shot & im lining up some slammers for us ...