"HI" and I'm STILL here!! I think sometimes they just don't take the time to follow the forums and get to know the wonderful people here. I'm still trying to "fit in" but I'm hanging in here.
I had a great experience. The man I've been with for the past 15 months and I met online. He's a wonderful man. We've been through some "issues" since he apparently didn't actually stop using the dating sites...but we're working it out. Long story short...you CAN find someone. It's happened all over the world.
I think LOTS of us have had problems with Yahoo personals. The man I've been with for 15 months has also. I have to say "thank you" to them though....that's where I met him.
I'd have to sadly say...find a place for my 5 girls to be. My father passed away about two weeks ago and that was hard for me. So, I'd have to make sure they were taken care of first and foremost.
I can always count on you for a good laugh Don. I'm glad you and J are great. I've missed your sense of humor. (by the way, my straight jacket is STILL laying next to my bed)
Thank you. I'm feeling better already with the great people here who have shed a lot of light and discussed things I never thought about. Thank you so much!!
Nawww, not me. I don't get even. I never stoop to their level and have them able to tell everyone I was no better than they are. I have more respect for myself. I told him if things are working out, he can leave. If it's not what he really wants and doesn't love me, he can leave. He's still there.
So very true. He's hid a lot of things. What urkes me is that he took his brother to the airport with him who knows he's with me. I tried to explain to him thats just one more thing for me to feel embarrassed about. His own brother! Now I feel I'm being "laughed at" by him as well. I guess blood is thicker than water, but his own brother told him he better stick with ME and quit the crap, if he really loved me. I don't "trust" him. I'm not sure if I can again. I told him that if I can't get over the trust factor, I'm going to leave for good. I don't want to always throw that in his face and make both of us miserable.
Boy, I could ask myself the same question. I was told by someone very recently, "If you don't want to FIND anything, then don't LOOK".
I viewed his profiles, with the hope that he did the same as I did....change them to indicate he HAS someone and was just around for friends. BUT of course he didn't, and at least the forums I have joined before were for just that. Friends.
I would not move. My children need stability. He would have to be willing to relocate. There are too many factors involved to just say "I want it this way". With great communication, planning, and understanding it could be done.
But then again, I've also learned "never say never"!
I agree. I honestly think he's addicted to dating sites. I found him on several. Didn't bother to update his profile after he and I started being serious. At least I've always either deleted mine, or updated it as in the one here.
That is true. He said at one point he thought he might have "loved" her but then again, online you can feel, think, and be whatever you want, or what someone else wants. He said in the end he felt she was not sincere and it became a game. A power trip. I guess you do have to be careful of the quiet men, since you never really know what they think or feel.
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RE: ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
"HI" and I'm STILL here!! I think sometimes they just don't take the time to follow the forums and get to know the wonderful people here. I'm still trying to "fit in" but I'm hanging in here.