You expressed yourself very clearly. But as I read your story I could feel there was more to it than meets the eye. A bigger picture if you will, that can be seen but has to be looked for. I hope I haven't confused you with my ponderings here. It is just very thought provoking.
Its not just women who need a pic, its the men too! Its all about the whole package now. A physical and emotional connection. We are all hoping to find the best match for ourselves.
Thats a risk you take in any relationship. You never know whats going to happen in the beginning. But when there is a child involved its a different situation. Its to late then. The child is the first priority for both, or better be.
I think women these days are much smarter and more independent. Which makes them even more attractive in my opinion. You get to see more of the real woman.
Never worry! Nice people will only be concerned with how nice you are. Words are only words. Its how they are spoken that counts. When said with kindness and friendship its all good!
I can settle this one! You put a woman from each country in one room and let us pick which is the best and you know what he will say if the fella is smart. The one that wants me!
The woman of my dreams will be a kindred spirit. Its not all about looks and money. Without the connection the rest is hopeless. I want the thrill that being close to her causes.
A tough situation! I can relate though! In the end no one wins. You can only try to make it as easy as possible for the kids. Us grown ups made the situation so its up to us to handle it as best we can. Good luck and you have my best wishes! PS! Dads a jerk! His children should come before anything else!
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RE: Why u came and looked deep into my eyes?
You expressed yourself very clearly. But as I read your story I could feel there was more to it than meets the eye. A bigger picture if you will, that can be seen but has to be looked for. I hope I haven't confused you with my ponderings here. It is just very thought provoking.