I dont believe i mentioned drama anywhere in my posts. Nor did i say i would continue to act hurt after the first conversation...what i did say was i would tell him how i felt and then i would move on. Nor did i say i would continue to live in grief either. Simply i would feel how i feel and then let it go. But changing a negative to a positive in the initial stages of it is not healthy. Feeling how you feel...let it out...then move onto the positive... Of course...people fall in and out of love all the time...i would never stay with someone ive fallen out of love with either..
I wouldnt call someone who shows anger when something has angered them an emotional instability Kremap. Its called using your emotions intelligently....thats what they are there for.
If on the other hand they burnt his car or cut up his clothes...thats an extreme...that can be called a somewhat emotional instability...all the same they still felt their emotions.
But letting someone you know who u trusted that they have hurt u and upset u is healthy....thats what i would have done...
Its like a death...if you dont go through the grieving process but consistantly instead but on a show of happiness...where has that upset gone....sometimes they need to be felt ...betrayal and death are two instances where u feel your emotion.
I fully get that but having a conversation about splitting up and parting woukdnt normally but done with a child present ....so in that time i would have let my emotions about it out .. then gladly move on and ket him live his life and me mine. . I wouldnt bottle my emotion because that woukd make me cold and angry and not only woukd it be harmful to me but to my child also.
No i certainly wouldnt...but what i would do is show some emotional reaction to it at the time and rightly be upset..angry and frustrated....i wouldnt just accept a betrayal as easily as that. But thats just me.
Im thankful for waking up and having had a decent sleep. Thankful im going to work. That i have some good friends here and obvs in the real world. Thankful that i have a healthy body and mind.
Hey Dan. Im looking to go to a good one in the city but they are constantly booked up....theres another one recommended so ill try there but would rather the other one.
It makes all the difference when you get a great nights sleep..really does.
I dont think theres anyone who hasnt either suffered or known someone to suffer from depression...sadly...so i think as much as you cant understand it if you havnt suffered they may see what its like with someone else.
SlainteMhaithx Forum Posts (941)
RE: Tolerance.....
I tolerate too much.