I always want the nice guy........but I end up being attracted to the bad boys. I think I have what is called "trashpicker syndrome". It's when you see something or someone who appears to be broken and you think "Hmmmmm.I can fix that." and then months later he is still broken,but you've just gotten so used to having him around that you just can't seem to throw him away. Like that easy chair with the missing leg that you stick a few harlequin novels underneath to hold it up.
I have a beautiful baby girl out of my 2 year relationship with a beautiful man. We have been separated due to circumstances beyond our control, but I don't regret one second that we were together, and nor do I feel being with him was a waste of my time.
That potential partner did agree to relocate and we wanted it to work so badly that we were in denial until reality came along and gave us both a big fat "Whassa mattah fo you?" smack in the head. Everyone is right though in that if it is "The real thing" then it is worth it to continue the long distance relationship. I have sent him a message about the situation on another site and I am just going to see what he thinks. If it doesn't work out then hey I gave it a last shot and it wasn't meant to be and I will just move on with my life. Thanks for the input and yes I am even thankful for the things I didn't want to hear(or read in this case).
Judging by the responses I have recieved ,I have made a mistake and should have continued the relationship. I don't know for sure yet but I will discuss it with him and see what came out of it. Hopefully other wrenches don't get thrown into the gears. I will come back and tell everyone what happens.
Niether of us can afford to travel a lot ,and it would be too difficult to simply keep in touch. This is why relocation was the plan ,because we can't afford to travel.
One of the kids lives with grandparents ,and is 15 and sees his mother pretty much every day,but this mother has no legal custody so she cannot take the child away from grandparents. The other kid is 6 and lives with his dad full time but sees his mother weekly(it would violate visitation for the guy to relocate with the child).
My actual question was...........Do you think it would be worth it to wait 3 yrs? When you think about it ,the past 3 yrs went by fast so maybe the next three will too.
and he/she lived in another part of your state which made it a long distance relationship. This person came to meet you and you both fell hopelessly in love,this person also came to see you every other week for a couple of days for about 2 months,and you both talked about growing old together. Ok here's the crappy part........Neither of you can relocate because of legitamate reasons and the reason is the same for both of you ,but you were both in denial about it because you wanted so badly for it to work. You decide mutually to break it off and try again in 3 years because one of you will be able to relocate at that time.
Would you.......
A.Try not to get into a serious relationship and just play the field until 3 years has passed. B.Move on knowing that if you do you will probably never find "The One" again.
If there is anyone who would like to add a "C" option feel free because anything will help.
I was here for like 8 months before I found someone ,and I am glad I didn't give up. If it can happen for me ,it can happen for anyone. You just have to be patient and also don't sit back and wait for the fishes to swim to you. Oh and don't wait forever to meet the person you're interested in.
I think I have actually found someone here! I am so happy even though he only left a couple hours ago ,I miss him like crazy already. Don't let anyone tell you that you'll never find someone on this site! Keep looking and sooner or later you will make it happen.
The same methods wouldn't work for nicotine because we have nicotine receptors in our brain. Cleaning he blood would do no good. I understand how hard it is as I have quit for 5 yrs once and then 2 yrs after that but started back up about 8 mos ago. I hope to quit again soon and hopefully for good this time.
That's just not true. I think that most mens idea of a good woman is a little warped and they tend to want the women that the bad men have. A trophy. Chances are a trophy girl is going to be shallow and just go with the trophy guy regardless of whether he is a good guy or not. Another theory is that women will somethimes pick men based on looks because all women have the breeding instinct built in and will choose a partner who will help make healthy and attractive children.
I have lived here all my life and I am a sweetheart Actually lots of states have much higher taxes than we do here. I have to say though that pretty much all the people I have met here from the same state have been not so nice.
Would it annoy you if you talked to someone about meeting and they changed their mind ,but then when you check to see who has viewed your profile that person is always on the list? This guy still checks me out on an almost daily basis. I have sent several emails asking him not to look if he doesn't want to meet me ,but it doesn't work. I guess I really want to know if I am wrong for being annoyed.
But again we wouldn't have to take time to understand if we just said exactly what is on our minds in the first place in stead of waiting to see if the other person figures it out for themselves.
You ARE an IDIOT!!! I am 31 and still single because I choose to be single! Most of us single women are single by choice! We have not found men worth giving our lives to ,and therefore are still single ,however not miserable. We would much rather be single and content than married and regretful because we married the wrong man. When we find men who truly love us ,are faithful ,and can take care of themselves...........THEN and only THEN will we settle down and get married!
If we don't ever get married then thats fine because it just proves we were right ,that truly good men are just too few and far between.
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RE: Describe your self in 3 words!
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