My opion Kelly is this,let them see for themselves,that the grass is not always greener on the other side,a Auntie loves you,but she is the farthest thing from being there mom. So once the wee "vacation" is over,and they have to start making decissions that require resposibility,I can almost say without a doubt,they will be on the phone,begging mom if they can come back home. Living with soon to be adult children is not always a easy task,but sometimes we too as parents need the break,and the time to take a close look at what it is we want for our lives. Once they leave for good,they don't often take a second look back and see how we are doing,they just assume we are doing all right,as that how we have at most always made it appear to them,in this case,just maybe it will help you find out what it is you want out of live,kinda like giving you a head start. This also comes from personal experience,and when .if they do come back home,its always as beter people,as being away in someway shows them just how much we mean to them,and how much we do for them. No matter what happens Kelly,all you can do is be there.And know that its not easy,my thoughts and best wishes are with you.
Thank goodness for freedom of speech,am not posting my opion to get any slack from any,am just giving my personal opion.
I know that there are crimes that most feel that the death penalty is required,but I feel that life without parole is what sits well with me.
Am not overly religous,but to me,only God can judg us,on each side of the cross was a thief,and a murderer,and the murderer was trully sorry for the crime he committed,and was trully sorry for the crime he committed ,and was forgiven.
Many times a man is put to death,and it is the wrong man,and yes many,and most times,its the right man.But murder is murder,regardless of how,or who,and death is a easy way out,to live with yourself,and all you have done,to me is part of the punishment,to have to stew in your crime,and yes,not all men or woman have a consciecne.
But in end,let he God be the judge.
I know its cosly to have to have a prisoner incarserated,and my tax dollars are high enough as is,but can we as humans,not forget,but find a wee bit of compassion,or at the very least some way to let the real judge deal with it,the way he best feel suited.
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well don't be shy,statr talking,or forever hold you peace ...lol