RE: Real Men Cry

oh no... crying crying crying



You just had too...

RE: Real Men Cry

Elephant man... crying

RE: Real Men Cry

comfort You'll be ok... comfort

RE: Burqanisation

Of course crimes are everywhere, I just wish you'd see that your country isn't just rosypeachy... and in particular not for women...


Did you read about Mukhtar Mai????

Does this seem right to you???


Is this ok behaviour from what you think is a great society???



Might help if you open your eyes and mind a bit...

RE: Burqanisation

I prefer it here...


RE: I´ve been wondering about R2S...anybody seen or heard from her lately?

Was going to ask the same... confused dunno

RE: Burqanisation

Thing is, you should really look into things before throwing statements out there...

Turns out you were totally wrong about Norway....




"The status of women in Pakistan varies considerably across classes, regions, and the rural/urban divide due to uneven socioeconomic development and the impact of tribal, feudal, and capitalist social formations on women's lives. The Pakistani women of today enjoy a better status than most Muslim and Middle Eastern women. However, on an average, the women's situation vis-à-vis men is one of systemic subordination"


And I don't doubt that... but all in all... that's not for everyone...

PHOTOS from the Break for the Border meet!

Some good ones in the ones I got from you!!! thumbs up
Thanks!!






Any more pics floating around??

Or should I just start sorting the ones I've got??


Anyone????!!!???


laugh

RE: Burqanisation

What I'm saying is that the majority of women are hardly living the lives described on the sites you gave the links for...



BTW, did you figure out the corruption stats yet???

RE: Burqanisation

Thanks... mine is a glass of red... grin wine

RE: Burqanisation

I'm not asking you about national or provincial assembly...


I'm asking you about the average woman, and not in cities... rural areas for instance...

RE: Burqanisation

Have you read anything of what I've written???confused

RE: Burqanisation

That's hardly what I asked you...

RE: Burqanisation

I'm still wondering about this...

confused dunno

RE: I am sick by politic and politicians

We have some idiot politicians, as in plain stupid... but I don't mind most of the ones we have actually...


dunno

PHOTOS from the Break for the Border meet!

Great!!



You have mail...

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOPEFLOATS!!!

happy birthday cheering

RE: I am dating a lady with emotional issues.

confused dunno

RE: I am dating a lady with emotional issues.

thumbs up

RE: Burqanisation

More updated list...







From 2009...

RE: Burqanisation

Found where you found your stats about corruption...

You've read the list the wrong way,

The LEAST corrupt countries are listed first... hence Norway in 8th place...

Whereas Pakistan is in the same group as Congo, Democratic Republic, Kenya, Paraguay,Somalia, Sudan and Tajikistan.

Slightly worse, and at the top of the list are Angola, Cote d'Ivoire, Equatorial Guinea, Nigeria, Haiti, Myanmar, Turkmenistan, Bangladesh and Chad...

RE: Burqanisation

I looked at the links... are you trying to make me/us believe that this is the life for ALL Pakistani women???


"Pakistan is hindered by corruption on both systematic and societal levels.
In the professional realm, for example, when a woman competes for a position in the country’s civil service, she is often held back by corrupt individuals who – whether through bribery or connections – promote their own preferred candidate. Capable women, who are relatively new to politics, are often unable to manipulate the system in this same manner.

In the health care sector, female civil servants who do not accept bribes are often overlooked for promotions; positions further along the “corporate ladder” are instead given to men who are considered bribable. This not only affects women, but has an adverse affect on the country’s overall healthcare performance.

Women already face social, cultural, political and institutional discrimination, and corruption often exacerbates their situation. Access to government institutions – such as basic hospitals, health care and schools – is restricted by gender considerations and compounded by corruption.

Illiteracy is a second major factor impoverishing women in the country. Pakistan’s national literacy rate of 50 percent still lags behind most other countries in the region. And since 1951 the number of illiterate women has tripled. Women make up 60 percent of the illiterate population and are therefore disproportionately excluded from higher education and employment opportunities.

The key to increasing female literacy is as basic as adequately constructed schools. According to Dr. Zubair Khan, former Minister for Commerce, schools in the North West Frontier Province lack toilet facilities, are close to commercial areas and are not segregated. These factors lead to girls being kept from school once they reach puberty, due to traditional customs in the region that limit women’s visibility in the public sphere.

This leads to the third factor, patriarchal feudal systems in rural areas, which ensure that women are kept behind closed doors. Even if a female is among the rare few to receive an education, she is not allowed to work alongside a man as it would be considered a “modern” situation, frowned upon by the rural elite.

Poor women may till the soil, but their education is seen as a threat to the area’s existing system of governance. Working against the feudal mindset and setup, education is perceived as a menace to tradition, encouraging girls to think, work, and marry on their own accord, a practice not allowed in many of Pakistan’s rural areas. Additional steps to address these factors are necessary.

Pakistan’s new government should strengthen the Ministry of Women Development, which is presently small and ill-equipped, lacking adequate logistic and technical know-how to deal with the many gender problems that the country is facing. The ministry requires increased funding and stronger links with other key ministries to ensure that gender is not constantly sidelined in the development debate within Pakistan.

Paying lip-service to the gender empowerment mantra is not enough, it is time that effective action is taken and the 2004 and 2006 bills affecting women’s rights are implemented in letter and in spirit. All eyes are on the new democratic government to act effectively for gender parity so that all of Pakistan’s citizens can both benefit and participate equally in the future of the country. "

By Meezan Zahra Khwaja is a research associate at the Sustainable Development Policy Institute in Islamabad.

RE: Burqanisation

Not sure how you can claim this, as Pakistani girls even here, are forced to wear veils...


dunno

RE: Burqanisation

Oh, I have that very much in mind.... laugh

RE: Burqanisation

I wasn't even going to bother to comment on that...laugh

PHOTOS from the Break for the Border meet!

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RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STRESSFREE!!!

happy birthday cheering

RE: Burqanisation

doh

PHOTOS from the Break for the Border meet!

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Anyone with pics????

RE: What hair color do men "REALLY" like most on women?

wow


Not very nice of you.... scold

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