I have seen both really . It is very telling that for example , when a person looses a loved one , you see people , good poeple turn the other way. They don't do it coz they are bad people , rather they feel embarrased or less than , to be of help . Sad fact of life IMO .
I don't know so much about the power thing , if some1 in a relationship want more power , control , more dominance etc then I am long gone , seriously thats just game playing and childish ! Now the perfect scenario for me would be a 50/ 50 relationship, cant say I ever happened upon that though and think I would have a rather long wait JMO.
I have never been a dominating type of person , never want to be either . It is about personalities , some will and some wont. I think it works both ways though , there are a lot of dominating males out there too.
I have to say I don't have an ideal body type in mind for my "ideal man". I was far too skinny a few years ago , I now have a pair of hips and they are well nice The funny thing was at the time no1 told me that I didn't look my best being sooo thin, its only when I put up a stone in weight that people told me the truth . I couldn't believe it ! I look better with a little weight on ! All in all I have to say that I like bigger guys
RE: Let's learn Spanish!
Oh Signor ! You tease me