LOL! I'll keep that in mind for the next time I see a spider. I can't ask that one, as I flushed it down the sink, and I no longer work at that school.
I did, I went around trying to "bring back up" the coffee all day. Even to this day, I can't drink coffee without thinking about it, and that was1 1/2 year ago. I didn't leave the coffee cup anywhere (and I more careful never to do it now), so I don't know how it got in there.
I got that too, and there was no rushing to get it done and leaving it abit dirty, so you could go out to play. We got a smaking had to do it over again. So we all learnt to clean quickly from the beginning, and to do it properly.
Count to 10 before you do something you'll regret. If you realise you are to upset to reach 10..... walk away, it doesn't mean you're a coward, it just means you're much better than you think.
I think: if he wants to get to know me, he'll have to be the one to make contact first, because I'm not gonna write him first.
I don't fall in love just from seeing that a man has looked at my profile. It takes much more than him looking at my profile, or him having nice profile photos to make me fail in love.
If Putin really is dead, did he start the war in the Ukraine, knowing he was dying, and wanted to leave his "mark" in russian history like lots of other presidents did? Gorbachev eg., was responsible for the Berlin Wall being broken down, and with it, the "freedom from communism" for the eastern countries.
With the war in the Ukraine, did Putin think he could start the war and it would be over in a few days, weeks or months (before he dies), and that he would go down in history as the man who "regained a part of old Russia" back to communism? If he's alive, could/would his next target be/ have been Poland?
I have met lots of nice people from both Russia, and the Ukraine. When my children were small, we had an Ukrainian au-pair girl. I have also met a few more Ukrainians before and since the war, at my church here in Sweden, so I morally support the Ukrainian people.
For the past week or so, I've been reading in newspapers online that Putin had died, the doctors who were with him when he died, are still locked in the same room with his corpse, look alike doubles who are taking his place publicly, and that the Kreml has on 3 or more occasions denied the "rumours".
For many months now, Ukrainian and other countries have been speculating that Putin is seriously ill, probably won't live past the end of 2023, and had been using more and more look alike doubles for his public appearances.
I have also read in newspapers online, that the president of one of the countries that supported his war on the Ukraine, is now backing down, and asking him to stop the war.
Is it true, can Putin really be dead, and if so, what has his death for an effect as far as the war in the Ukraine and politically for the rest of the world?
I forgot to say that sometimes when I'm in the bus or train, I find myself counting trees, windows, or anything that's in a large amount along the way. I don't buy fruits, vegetables or such in odd numbers, it's either 2, 4 or 6 etc., if it's already packages, I try to find one that has an even number. If you've seen the move "As good as it gets" with Jack Nicholson, how he walks on the stones.....The pavement from my apartment building to the bus stop is paved that way, as are many paveemnts in and around the city, I often have to remind myself to step on whichever one.
I have OCD, until a few years ago, my "tick" was a compulsive washing of my hands, especially when I was cooking. I couldn't cook dinner without making atleast 2 kitchen towels completely wet, before dinner was finished.
A former workmate of mine, was a "prankster", one day at work, she turned off all the main water supply, so we didn't have water. I went to the toilet, only to find there was no water to wash my hands. I used disinfectant, but it wasn't enough, I started getting really anxious, and was about to cry, when it started raining, I rushed to the window, to wash my hands in the rain, realising that something was wrong, my workmate admitted her prank, and turned the water on again. I often had small sores and chapped skin on my hands. I'm over the obsessive hand washing again, I still do it alot, but not as much as before.
I then started to have an obsession checking the main door to see if it was locked, I did this many times each night (strangely enough, I didn't do it during the daytime), even getting out of bed in the middle of the night to check. That ended after I broke 4 doorknobs on inside my apartment door, and the maintenance man kept asking why it's happening (I haven't told him why). I still check the door many times each night (even when I go to the toilet......I have to go pass the main door, so I try not to go too often to the toilet at night), but not as often as before.
Everything in my kitchen cupboard was in a certain order, eg. I could go to the kitchen cupboard and even with with my eyes closed, find the right condiments, glass, dish etc. That's all changed now, as 2 of my grown up children have moved in with me. Everything is in a disarray, it took me a while, and I'm still trying to ignore it, to the point that I hardly ever cook food at home anymore, and if I do, then I cook enough so I can freeze some of it, and I don't have to cook daily, I eat salads or sandwiches, or buy food to eat on my way to work.
Now, I'm obsessed with trying not to have an obsession. I still wash my hands alot, and check often to see if the door is locked, it's not easy, but I keep trying my best. Hopefully, one day I'll be able to live without an obsession.
Mid june next year, I'll turn 60, at the end of august, my 2nd son will be 30. My plan is for all 4 of us (2 sons, daughter and myself) to go on a family trip somewhere to celebrate. Where to......I/we have yet to decide.
2018, I applied for a job, all through the interview, I was having a "negative feeling and a "small voice" telling me not to take the job, even if they were to pay the salary I wanted. A few days later, I got a call, the job was mine if I wanted it, at the salary I asked for. I ignored the negative feeling I was having during the interview, and said "yes".
I should have listened to that feeling/voice back then, because it turned out to be the worst place I've ever worked, and I was glad when the contract didn't get renewed, even though I was partly unemployed for over 2 years after that.
Flash forward to a few months ago, I started a second job, because I have lots of "free time" from my regular job, on the 1st day, I started getting the feeling that "this place isn't where I should be", but I kept on going, hoping that I'll change, but the feeling kept getting stronger each time I was there.
I was thinking of continuing, hoping the feeling would eventually go away, In the end, I decided I didn't want to have the same experience as in 2018, I listened to those feelings/voice and told the boss, that I'm quitting. When I went away from that job after talking to the boss, I felt as though a "weight" had been lifted off my chest.......It's always good to listen to that gut feeling or inner voice.
Thanks Bod: I read in Merc's comment that you were ill. Welcome back, didn't see your blog, however, good to know that all's well again.
Some people get their "kick" by being negative......I guess it's the only "thrill" they get each day, whenever they click on thumbs down. A few days ago I gave my first thumbs down, and that was in a blog/forum that was funny, but someone thought it was also funny that a italian who made cheese, died when a ton of cheese fell on him.....that's not funny at all, it's outright disrespectful, whether you know the person or not.
1: When they start being possesive in the relationship: You have to account for every move you make.
2: You're being treated as an object, housekeeper, or being ignored.
3: When you wake up one morning and realise you want out: all live is gone, the relationship had drained you.
4: When the other person begins always to dictate how you should dress, behave, what how and when you should eat, tried to make you change who you are to be what they want.
5: When your cultural identity suddenly becomes a problem/ matter of discussion for the other person.
6: Your family/ friends are no longer welcomed, are considered a "negative influence"
RE: Remove one keep one
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