well im allways faithful i have never strayed in any of my relationships if i enterd a new relationship and they strayed one night i would have to think very long and hard about the relationship
if it had been somthing that went on for a long time i wouldnt think twice of ending it
just to burst everyones bubble on the birthday theme lol
whats the worst birthday you have had
i dont like celibrating as somthing allways sours it
it was my 30th three years ago it was all going fine but i had still to receive a birthday call from her sister and hubby their kids as they live a bit away
i got a telephone call alright her sister had planned for the last three months to leave her hub and kids for some guy and she picked my birthday as the day to do it so we spent the rest of my birthday with three crying kids and her hubbby
hotlips i guess at nine year old he will be getting a little more independant so i would say have a party in two halfs the first half with all the adults running things like games n stuff and the second half just turn up the music and let the kids run wild in the garden themsleves and chuck in a football
the thing he might apreciate the most is being able to relax without adults hanging around
you know how it is
anyway hope you get scorching hot weather for the day and let us now how it goes
a few months before my then girlfriends 21st birthday i couldnt think of something just that little bit extra special to give her
but the guy that managed the local football team who we both knew personally moved to a larger club down south taking all of the players and coaches that we knew personally too with him this really put her down as she worshiped the team
so idecided to call the manager guy up and explained the situation and could he get all or mabye some the guys to just sign a nice birthday card he agreed and i bought one of the cards with the few pages inside as he asked me to
i made sure i got the card directed back to me at my work address incase she picked up the mail at the house and found out
what he done was get all the guys that he took with him to sign it and small personal notes on it to her and the guys he didnt take with him he had it sent by courier to them and back to sign
on the big day all her birthday cards and presents had arrived so i slipped the envelope in amongst the others when she opened it she burst into floods tears she couldnt understand why they had signed the card and written personal notes to her out of the blue
i said they did it cause i had asked them to for her
well once ive said hello and chatted for a few mins
you ask them somthing they will never expect to hear
you ask them whats the funniest thing they have ever experenced or seen etc thats the attention grabber
they will stand for a min then start to tell you what it is while starting to laugh a little then more and more then you tell her your funniest one thats the ice broken
there are two outcomes either 1 you will walk away back to whoever you were with and been told somthing funny at least
or as your going to walk away she will ask you to sit with them
that way your not using cheesy lines and at least get a laugh out of it
after 10 years together i discoverd my partner cheated when we first started going out she made us both agree the person who cheats first leaves no questions asked
anyway she "left" with just the clothes on her back leaving all her stuff in the house i gave myself a few months to cool down a little and then i borrowed all my neighbours wheely bins "trashcans " for the americans here filled them up with all her belongings and stood and watched everything getting crushed in the back of the truck
after i had done it i really felt she was totally out of my life
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RE: If your boy friend or girl friend, husband or wife is very faithful to you, will you be faithful?
not me but you live in the hope of not going through that sort of thing