melani Forum Posts (26)

Children

Are children of highly educated parents normal? I mean, is there anything lacking in them? Do they get all hyperactive at times? I encounter problems with a few children in school. As a class teacher, I struggle to find what it could be that triggers traits like 'no interest', 'attitude' 'I know it all' and many more.

Could it be, that they get less attention because their parents are too busy? Or is that parents themselves are too eccentric that they unconsciously inculcate some disturbing attitudes in their children?

Would appreciate comments

Telepathy

It happens to me most of the time although I don't IM that much. I just know someone's hurt or upset at some point and when I inquire my thoughts have been proven true.

Amazing isn't it? And 'Stress free' has given some important sites to log on to. Will do it and get myself more educated on this topic because I am so interested in it.

Telepathy

A GREAT RESPONSE VERY EDUCATIVE AND INFORMATIVE. THANK YOU

I AM CONVINCED OF MY THOUGHTS AND HOW THEY CONNECT NOW, BY ALL THE RESPONSES.

Telepathy

Do you believe in telepathy? There are times when I feel thoughts of ones who love me and think of me. I just know, there is some connection taking place. I feel instant heartbreaking pain, a sudden tug in my very being and at times even instant desire which tell me that even the one I love so dearly must be thinking of me.. Does anyone believe in TELEPATHY????? Does the power and the energy created therein in a mind connect with thoughts of others?????

Is communication important?

thanks for this response. This is what happens to me all the time. Although it is all over and my scars are healing, everytime a disagreement rose, it was a case of endless fights and finally shutting down communication. I have stayed without contacts a few times simply because I couldn't digest the harshness of the words and endless fights, but later on, I realized that he shut down communication with a clear purpose to avoid me. I got used to the frequent spells of silence, realizing all the time, that it was most unhealthiest way to carry out a relationship.
I hope it doesn't happen to anyone else.

Is communication important?

Is shutting down communication healthy for a relationship every time something goes wrong?

Let me know what you feel...

Friendship

Thank you very very much. It means a lot

Friendship

Life is like hell without friends. It's WORLD BEST FRIEND WEEK..
Here's wishing all good friends, a Happy Friendship Week..

RE: Saying Goodbye to my friends on CS

Truly happy for you. You happen to be one of those specially lucky ones.

Good Luck. May you both have the best of everything in life

Does it seem rude?

Thank you to all who have responded.
So far, I have had no abusive mails coming my way. I guess, staying quiet is alright, but then as someone says, a polite thank you and I am not interested will be fine as well.

I have got some food for thought. Thank you all!!!!

Does it seem rude?

I get mails from kind people who want to start a relationship. I am very hesitant when it comes to replying these mails. I just don' t want to encourage people or upset them by leading them on.
So I prefer to remain quiet. Does this sound rude???

RE: how to cure broken heart???

From my heart , through personal experience, I just feel that a broken heart will only heal with time.

revenge or having a man without getting out of it completely, are not going to solve issues or pain. if you believe in a committed relationship then you must allow yourself to come to terms with facts. Then ,love will come your way, and bless you in abundance for whatever you are in person.

good luck. If you follow the faith I do, then it will be easy to dwell on changes of your mind.

May you have peace in your life.

RE: Selfish

A terrible nerve wracking thing to hear at a time so intense. But then, there are the insensitive who would just utter such words without batting a lid.

It would sure be a selfish thing to say, oh but may be, you'll learn not to get affected.....

RE: IS KISSING IMPORTANT TO YOU?

Oh yes, it is a vital mode of intimacy in my opinion. Kisses, no matter how they taste, are lovely, could melt you over right to the bones!!!

RE: why woman get up tight

That is the way with women I guess. They have moods which are almost melodies

It is upto the man close by to understand the depths of these moods and emotions. However, uptight is certainly better than what someone has already said, down and loose!!

Have you ever ...............?

My reply to you is somewhere down below...

Have you ever ...............?

Thank you

Have you ever ...............?

It is so good to know, such feedback could put a smile back on my face.

Thank you

Have you ever ...............?

Hey thanks a lot

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Hey thanks a lot

Have you ever ...............?

No dear It is one of my own kinds.

Thanks for responding

RE: Male and Female Roles in Couples Relationships

I could share my opinion with you. Well I am firm believer of shared responsibilities. Without which, one could surely turn sour.
It would be a great blessing to share household chores so you end up finishing everything together?

In this part of the world, we do have our male chauvinists who think of their status as men. But there are wonderful partners, who simply love the idea of doing everything it takes to make a happy home successful.

It is upto the lady to decide if she wants to work or not. If she has the right qualifications and her mate is not all that fussy, she could work, but make sure that home scene doesn't get neglected .It is wonderful to be financially independent as long as the male partner does not feel threatened by the fact.
We simply don't have to run to them for every extra penny that we need to buy what we want.

Ofcourse, there are the wonderful men, who are so loving n caring they make sure they take their housewives out shopping, so both feel loved and respected.

Up to you to make your decisions.

Here's wishing you the very best!!!

Have you ever ...............?

Thank you, Your words might help And I sure know, that CS has helped so many, n, there are lovely happy endings I have read about. Noway, I don't expect to meet anyone here. I have asked only for friendship because those who know me, know, that is all I could offer right now.

Bless CS, without it, I would be in deep throes of pain without any exaggeration. Here, I could just say what I want without being judged.

Thank you once again

Have you ever ...............?

Has anyone met someone, who appears to be so sweet at first, and later turns out to be source for your tears....?

There are ones, who mail you, who get to know you, especially when you are very very vulnerable and easily hurt. They say so many lovely things, send flowers and pretty mails.
Later, when you almost get to know the person, and feel that someone is there for you, they turn their worst poses in front of you.
Endless calls which never get answered, a simple message to warm the heart, where as, they appear to be simply crazy with love and attention they could give you... at the start, when you respond to their questions are what is left behind.

The anxiety, and heartbreak seem never ending.. you feel you are falling apart all over again.
Why do some of us feel so naive in the presence of strangers I wonder.
Is it that we are so weak in our own souls that we get drawn to deception?

Are there people who have gone through this experience?? I wonder..

RE: Can people who are just lovers...

Good for you. YOU seem to be speaking to me. Haven't had any warmth for soooooooooo long, N I ache... for a cuddle, a hug.
A feeling of guilt spreads over me, yet, I know he is there.
Aren't we all human? Don't we need what we yearn for?

LET it grow, and next time, when you see him.. let it happen slowly, may be you will unwind.

good luck

A TRUE APPRECIATION

I somehow know, what CS has done to me
I was a broken soul, with all my emotions suppressed
I suffered because I couldn't pour my heart out.
Thanks to SOMEONE OUT THERE, I found YOU.. CS

NOW THE YEAR IS ALMOST OVER,
I AM STILL WHERE I WAS,
BUT I HAVE FOUND COMFORT IN SOME WONDERFUL WAYS


SO, Isn't this an APT TIME to Thank
the staff who keep us alive?
I don't know how many of you are there,
But I am sure, each one of you is so special
because here is a place like no place
for broken hearts and confused to
bare their inner souls

AND FOR NOTHING WHICH IS EXPENSIVE,
JUST A SIMPLE LOG IN ......



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