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Jan 13, 2009 9:51 PM CST Selfish
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Can we play a little game here in CS land??grin

Everyone close your eyes, pretend you are in a nice romantic spot with "THE ONE"....... You are in great anticipation of what is to be.

"THE ONE", looks at you and says, "I would rather be happy than be with you"..wow How do you feel????sigh

Who is the selfish one??doh













I bet this dies quick....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 13, 2009 9:54 PM CST Selfish
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
My ex once told me he would rather spend 1 night with an old crush from high school than a lifetime with me--should have been a sign there,instead waited 19 more years to wake up..Funny thing never forgot those words...sigh
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Jan 13, 2009 9:55 PM CST Selfish
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
I would say............Damn I am so glad you said aloud exactly what I was thinking, ...Do you mind if I go ahead and call the woman over that would make me happy, so she can take your place?

because you are leaving, RIGHT? laugh

that will piss em' offlaugh
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Jan 13, 2009 9:56 PM CST Selfish
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
tina_olson: My ex once told me he would rather spend 1 night with an old crush from high school than a lifetime with me--should have been a sign there,instead waited 19 more years to wake up..Funny thing never forgot those words...


Oh could I tell some stories..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

But how did you "FEEL"????
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Jan 13, 2009 9:57 PM CST Selfish
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
HJFinAZ: Oh could I tell some stories..

But how did you "FEEL"????


How did I feel--very very hurt......
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Jan 13, 2009 9:57 PM CST Selfish
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Tater: I would say............Damn I am so glad you said aloud exactly what I was thinking, ...Do you mind if I go ahead and call the woman over that would make me happy, so she can take your place?

because you are leaving, RIGHT?

that will piss em' off


I have never found a person, place, or thing that makes me happy.dunno
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Jan 13, 2009 9:58 PM CST Selfish
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
tina_olson: How did I feel--very very hurt......


Thank you....hug
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Jan 13, 2009 9:59 PM CST Selfish
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
tina_olson: How did I feel--very very hurt......


To add to that--was very young then-nowdays I would have kicked him to the curb in a heartbeat...laugh
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Jan 13, 2009 10:56 PM CST Selfish
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
HJFinAZ: Can we play a little game here in CS land??

Everyone close your eyes, pretend you are in a nice romantic spot with "THE ONE"....... You are in great anticipation of what is to be.

"THE ONE", looks at you and says, "I would rather be happy than be with you".. How do you feel????

Who is the selfish one??

I bet this dies quick....


Initially, I would be very hurt. If I truly loved that person, I would want her to be happy even if it wasn't with me.
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Jan 13, 2009 11:07 PM CST Selfish
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

I would of course feel devastated. But you can't make
someone love you or be happy with you, so I would turn
and walk away, where he could not see my tears. I have
a very tender heart and cry easily. crying
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Jan 13, 2009 11:10 PM CST Selfish
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
HJFinAZ: I have never found a person, place, or thing that makes me happy.





Were you never ever truly happy at anytime with your exes?

What would make you happy as in a relationship or should
I take this to mail? hug
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Jan 13, 2009 11:12 PM CST Selfish
tina_olson: My ex once told me he would rather spend 1 night with an old crush from high school than a lifetime with me--should have been a sign there,instead waited 19 more years to wake up..Funny thing never forgot those words...



Sorry to hear that Tina. People take these unrequited loves and blow them into things they are not Sounds like he didn't deserve you. Hope you find a lovely man on here.hug
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Jan 13, 2009 11:15 PM CST Selfish
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Dawn7z: Sorry to hear that Tina. People take these unrequited loves and blow them into things they are not Sounds like he didn't deserve you. Hope you find a lovely man on here.
Hey Dawn I would rather be with you rolling on the floor laughing Joke but your a awsome friendcheers
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Jan 14, 2009 12:41 AM CST Selfish
Marseilles
MarseillesMarseillesSomewhere, Indiana USA4 Threads 436 Posts
If you cannot be happy alone you'll never be happy, period.
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Jan 14, 2009 12:47 AM CST Selfish
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Easy. If I loved him I would want him to be happy.
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Jan 14, 2009 12:51 AM CST Selfish
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
WhatUwish4: Easy. If I loved him I would want him to be happy.
Hey Karen how are you doing?I think you are a very cool person and you to Dawn.
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Jan 14, 2009 12:52 AM CST Selfish
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
WhatUwish4: Easy. If I loved him I would want him to be happy.
now, thats not selfish at all.....sad but, not selfishcrying .....laugh theres a song in there, somewherelaugh

wave
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Jan 14, 2009 12:56 AM CST Selfish
melani
melanimelaniKandy, Central Sri Lanka7 Threads 26 Posts
A terrible nerve wracking thing to hear at a time so intense. But then, there are the insensitive who would just utter such words without batting a lid.

It would sure be a selfish thing to say, oh but may be, you'll learn not to get affected..... sad flower
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Jan 14, 2009 1:24 AM CST Selfish
Exactly and what someone says like that may not take away the pain they have inflicted on us most likely by not thinking or out of anger but it sure makes it easier to get over them quicker in the long run. I have a difficult time getting over the wonderful men not the jerks. Sometimes it's difficult to understand why we fall for some of the people we do or put up with their nonsense. Or in my case why some of the men that have been in my life put up with me.dunno
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Jan 14, 2009 1:26 AM CST Selfish
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Dawn7z: Exactly and what someone says like that may not take away the pain they have inflicted on us most likely by not thinking or out of anger but it sure makes it easier to get over them quicker in the long run. I have a difficult time getting over the wonderful men not the jerks. Sometimes it's difficult to understand why we fall for some of the people we do or put up with their nonsense. Or in my case why some of the men that have been in my life put up with me.
I would put up with you but I'm getting ready forsleep see ya dawn
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