Well it's ok to be nice aka Holding the door for a lady, opening their car door for them...etc... but man, when it comes to a guy trying to "smother" you...enough is enough...lol ~JMO
This is why my last marriage failed also, everytime something went wrong; instead of "talking" about it, He would try and buy me stuff to be "nice" Personally...that just got on my nerves...but thats MY opinion...guess I'm WAY too down to earth and a simple person
RE: What would you do...
agrees with this also