Would you date a man on steroids? ( Archived) (63)

Jan 19, 2009 4:17 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Lee38
Lee38Lee38Kyrenia, Cyprus2 Threads 3 Posts
Just wondered if the use of such drugs would turn you off a man? I'm about to do my second, 12-week steroid cycle and, while I wouldn't volunteer the information to a potential partner, I would 'fess up if asked. Would it be a deal-breaker for you (please, no moralisers)?
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Jan 19, 2009 4:45 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
princessadele
princessadeleprincessadelemurray bridge, South Australia Australia11 Threads 9 Polls 127 Posts
yeah it would be bother me to be honest.lost a friend 2 yrs ago from drugs.
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Jan 19, 2009 6:27 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Lee38
Lee38Lee38Kyrenia, Cyprus2 Threads 3 Posts
Sorry to hear that, but I presume you mean hard drugs rather than steroids? Never heard of anyone dying of steroid use, other than champion powerlifters and bodybuilders using stupid amounts – they're actually very safe if used sensibly and with a little know-how.

I certainly wouldn't date anyone on hard drugs because, apart from anything else, hard drug users always lie and steal.
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Jan 19, 2009 8:50 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 Posts
It's a turn off for me. I rather a guy work hard for his muscle instead of taking drugs. Though, when I was 15 my boyfriend at the time was 16 and on them. He had muscles alright, now a days he's just ick! Since he stopped taking them he lost everything.
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Jan 19, 2009 10:27 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
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Lee38: Just wondered if the use of such drugs would turn you off a man? I'm about to do my second, 12-week steroid cycle and, while I wouldn't volunteer the information to a potential partner, I would 'fess up if asked. Would it be a deal-breaker for you (please, no moralisers)?


I think it would be a deal-breaker for most women - if they knew from the get-go, at least. That's based on my own conversations with women.

And by the way, to those who think steroids make you muscular without work, you're quite wrong. You have to exercise *hard* to develop muscles whether or not you use steroids. You just get bigger and generally more defined if you do.

Most if not all of the male models you ladies salivate over have used or are using steroids. You know, those ripped guys with the huge, venous arms? Them's from steroids.
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Jan 19, 2009 10:51 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Lee38: Sorry to hear that, but I presume you mean hard drugs rather than steroids? Never heard of anyone dying of steroid use, other than champion powerlifters and bodybuilders using stupid amounts – they're actually very safe if used sensibly and with a little know-how.

I certainly wouldn't date anyone on hard drugs because, apart from anything else, hard drug users always lie and steal.


If you're using steroids to treat an illness, no problem with it. If you're using them for weight lifting, then you're a vain idiot and I wouldn't date someone like that...but then, you'd be looking for a woman built that way as well, so it wouldn't be an issue. wine
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Jan 19, 2009 10:52 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Ambrose2007: I think it would be a deal-breaker for most women - if they knew from the get-go, at least. That's based on my own conversations with women.

And by the way, to those who think steroids make you muscular without work, you're quite wrong. You have to exercise *hard* to develop muscles whether or not you use steroids. You just get bigger and generally more defined if you do.

Most if not all of the male models you ladies salivate over have used or are using steroids. You know, those ripped guys with the huge, venous arms? Them's from steroids.


Not all of us drool over them, Ambrose. I sure don't. And no, I have no desire to date a man who looks like that, either. wine
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Jan 19, 2009 10:53 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
druidess6308: If you're using steroids to treat an illness, no problem with it. If you're using them for weight lifting, then you're a vain idiot and I wouldn't date someone like that...but then, you'd be looking for a woman built that way as well, so it wouldn't be an issue.


Not necessarily. I certainly wouldn't require, or even particularly desire, my lady to be as muscular as I am.

If you're vain to take steroids to get bigger muscles, are you also vain to simply exercise to be stronger and look more muscular? Is it a matter of degree?
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Jan 19, 2009 10:55 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
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druidess6308: Not all of us drool over them, Ambrose. I sure don't. And no, I have no desire to date a man who looks like that, either.


I know, but plenty of women here and elsewhere do, Dru.

When you think of your ideal man's physique - now please be candid here, my friend - what does it look like?
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Jan 19, 2009 10:59 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
I have to agree with Druidess, Ambrose. That body builder physique has always been a big turn off for me. I don't think any of my friends ever went for that either...
dunno dunno dunno
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Jan 19, 2009 11:04 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
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WhatUwish4: I have to agree with Druidess, Ambrose. That body builder physique has always been a big turn off for me. I don't think any of my friends ever went for that either...


Most women don't seem to like the bodybuilder look, granted.

But what do you think of "fitness models" (those who typically expose significant parts of their bodies in advertising a product, such as underwear)?

Do you consider their bodies to be attractive?
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Jan 19, 2009 11:05 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
dunno dunno...some say they get aggresive on them....i guess i like natural muscles on my mans body...cheers
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Jan 19, 2009 11:08 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
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bluebabsie: dunno...some say they get aggresive on them....i guess i like natural muscles on my mans body...


I do, too. blushing laugh Great new pic, Babsie!hug wave
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Jan 19, 2009 11:13 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
druidess6308: If you're using steroids to treat an illness, no problem with it. If you're using them for weight lifting, then you're a vain idiot and I wouldn't date someone like that...but then, you'd be looking for a woman built that way as well, so it wouldn't be an issue.


What she said!

giggle
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Jan 19, 2009 11:17 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
peace
Ambrose2007: I do, too. Great new pic, Babsie!



how big are yours....devil bouquet bouquet
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Jan 19, 2009 11:28 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
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bluebabsie: how big are yours....


Okay-sized. But "they're natural!" (as I always point to my love, when she complains).dunno blues laugh
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Jan 19, 2009 11:31 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
ooohh shes must lovely ! blushing: rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



Ambrose2007: Okay-sized. But "they're natural!" (as I always point to my love, when she complains).
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Jan 19, 2009 11:49 AM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
Ambrose2007
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bluebabsie: ooohh shes must lovely ! blushing:


Oh, incredibly so! And she's all natural (I thinkuh oh wow)! laugh conversing
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Jan 19, 2009 6:24 PM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Ambrose2007: Most women don't seem to like the bodybuilder look, granted.

But what do you think of "fitness models" (those who typically expose significant parts of their bodies in advertising a product, such as underwear)?

Do you consider their bodies to be attractive?


No, actually. My "ideal type" is actually slightly on the husky or stocky side. dunno Maybe I'm weird, but it's what I like.

I'll also admit that my taste now is different than it was when I was younger...then I did find the "fitness model" type attractive. wine
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Jan 19, 2009 6:27 PM CST Would you date a man on steroids?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Ambrose2007: Not necessarily. I certainly wouldn't require, or even particularly desire, my lady to be as muscular as I am.

If you're vain to take steroids to get bigger muscles, are you also vain to simply exercise to be stronger and look more muscular? Is it a matter of degree?


And yes, Ambrose, my friend...it's a matter of degree. Also remember that I'm into natural medicine and natural living, so I have an aversion to all things like this. Always have, though. I also live free of artifice...no dying my hair, no make-up...don't fake anything. I might have tolerated the slight use of them when I was younger...now I would find it a total turn-off. Evolution, my friend. wine
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