Nice guys don't finnish last...... not in my book anyway.
Took a look at your profile and glad to see you took Dagosto's advice. All looks good to me.
I think you need to get yourself some confidence when speaking with women and you will find the dating thing becomes alot easier when you are not scared of them. Women don't bite nice guys, so get some practice at chatting.
Maybe try it next time you are out at the supermarket. Try chatting to the women on the cash tills... a cheery word always brightens their day and you will be suprised at how easy it is to do.
Learn to smile at people in the street, especially the ladies.... you got nothing to loose by saying a friendly hello either.
You probably come into contact with many women and shy away from being the nice guy to them....... build your confidence with them so that when you do see someone you like you will not be tongue tied.
RE: Let the war begin. Most Women...(:
Geeee..... I always wanted to be in the "brownies"