All dating sites morph into different phases dependant on the users that come and go.
CS does from time to time, root out certain users who I guess they consider to be undesireable, although this rarely seems to get rid of those that the normal user would consider to be unwanted.
CS is going through a phase at the moment where arguement and confrontation is the norm. Unfortuneately this does "scareoff" many a user and certainly stops many from joining.
You only have to read some of the reviews out there in "netland" to know this is not an altogether friendly place, but then that is one of the down sides to a free, international dating site.
To question the validity of the site is probably a sure sign that it's time to take a break for a while...... Refresh and come back later, when things have calmed down.
For me, it's not so much the arguements, as I have learnt to just avoid them, but it's the fact that so many of the people I like and would want to meet live so far away.
The sun shines, the wine is good, the culture is fantastic, the people are so friendly, life is good here...... but when the woman you are interested in lives a million miles away.... it all becomes rather mundane.
I like it Dodge....... Although we have confronted each other in the past, I have always admired your forthright nature and Daves also....... not a problem for me....... strange as many might find it hard to belive, but I admire you both.... especially for what you did to make things happen between the two of you
RE: i need women to my life but not any women here choice me
Are you feeling a little deflated, then ?