I agree, so for some, even being on an International site really should not be an option.
If you have young children and you meet someone who also has children and you both get on well, the problem arises, sooner or later that one of you needs to make the decision to relocate.
Not a problem if your potential partner is close to hand or a couple of hours flight away from your own children, but if she/he is on the other side of the world, what is the reality of even pursueing such a relationship. ?
Love does find a way.... the love for ones children is strongest and will find it's way no matter what !
I think distance is probably the biggest issue here, especially on an International site.
You can spend hours chatting here, having fun on the forums and getting to know someone, using Skype or other such services, but it's not until you get to meet do you really know whether the chemistry is there......
If money were no object, I would probably spend the rest of my life jetting around the world to meet many of the wonderfull ladies on this site, just to share a coffee and maybe some quality time seeing the sites of their country, but if the chemistry is lacking then for both of us it's a dissappointment.
It is far easier to be at a function, museum, enjoying the arts or something similar..... see someone you like, talk to them and know within minutes whether you have a connection and take it further.
The internet connects people but it doesn't make a chemical connection !
So very true Jan, which is probably why I am very selective on an International dating site..... no point asking or pursueing if there is no actual reality of meeting.
Everyone has a bad day now and again, so I just try and make the most of it. Turn to something that makes me happy and consider that tomorrow will be better.
My ultimate kiss would obviously have to be with the woman I love. As for where, there are numerous places and occasions for kissing when you are in love and as I love to kiss It guess I would have to say anywhere at anytime.
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RE: What would....
I agree, so for some, even being on an International site really should not be an option.If you have young children and you meet someone who also has children and you both get on well, the problem arises, sooner or later that one of you needs to make the decision to relocate.
Not a problem if your potential partner is close to hand or a couple of hours flight away from your own children, but if she/he is on the other side of the world, what is the reality of even pursueing such a relationship. ?
Love does find a way.... the love for ones children is strongest and will find it's way no matter what !