I was separated for almost a year before I eventually heard the good news... that he'd met someone else. To say that I was relieved was an understatement. I thought that from then on he wouldn't be begging at my door to have him back. No such luck, took another 6months or so for him to actually move on, even though he was still with her all that time.
Hmmm... Major drinking is a huge problem for me. Been there, done that. One or two nights a week isn't a problem but every day on the way home and into the wee small hours just doesn't cut it.
Once you cheat - you're history.
The odd joint doesn't bother me as I have indulged myself, but I do prefer it if my man is not stoned all the time.
Showering/bathing is a must. No discussion on that one.
Brush your teeth. No discussion there either.
Accurate time-keeper. ten minutes either way is ok but otherwise forget it. II'm already gone.
RE: Kick in the ........
The best revenge is to let her have him!!