Thank you so very much you answered the question at hand here. And i have to agree with this statement ~~>>>"you have a kind heart and caring soul are rare in this day"
check first youself maybe there is something wrong with u
wow now there is something wrong with me. What other negative comments are you people going to put on here? first i am not a good father, then i was a push over , then i was that. NOW I HAVE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME.......WTF What is coming next? i could of sworn the question was "how do you get over a broken heart from being hurt so much" i never said i was desprate and couldn't find someone. i have found a few people i am talking to that is not the problem here... would you people seriously read the question and stop commenting on the comments here my mind is telling me to give someone a chance but my heart is saying "KEEP BACK" which one do i listen to my mind or my HOW DO YOU GET OVER A BROKEN HEART?
Poll Question: Being a kind, too caring, soft hearted man how do you really get over being hurt by women? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ does everyone see the question now?????????????????????????????????????????????????
I'm a fairly nice guy... and I even give flowers and presents to some (boy did those sure backfire), but I can't get a girl whether she is 'Good' or 'Bad' as far as it goes. So somebody deduce that - This is one nice guy that ain't finishing at all!
i have to second that. Give Give Give and still i am seeing no finish in sight. i have talked to "bad" girls and "good" girls. It is really getting frustrating...... almost make's me seeing all these "azzholes" that beat and mistreat women and there is guys like us that will give them what they want and need and still never get to the finish.
to answer this question it is common law. we were together over 9 yrs and i think the common law is 5 or more. not sure on that. ...................................................................
but now to any other poster's if you are going to post a down grading remark in reply to "my boys" plz keep going. My boy's are my top priority as much as possible in this situation. But that does not mean i dont have free time to try and find my someone that is going to be good for both my and my children. most of you people sit here and disreaspect me by saying "if it was you" you would concentrate on your kids first. WELL dont you think it would be better off finding someone now before i bring my children into a situation that would be diferant women playing games in and out of "our lives" ? i think i am doing this the smartest route possible with my children in mind. find someone before i get them in my custody so that i know this "woman" is going to be in "our" live's on a steady basis and my children can get used to one woman with daddy. SO WITH THAT SAID.... my children are my #1 in my thoughts and priorities. yes it is thinking of me but as a "FAMILY MAN" it is thinking of me and my children. so enough with the down gradeing "YOU SHOULD THINK OF YOUR KIDS FIRST" and "THE POOR KID's" comments stick to the posted question plz thank you.
Secondly, if "other women" do not feel like talking to someone, how on earth it breaks their heart? If that was the case, we'd have the entire CS community heart-broken.
IF THE OTHER WOMEN DIDNT FEEL LIKE TALK """"""THEN WHY DO THEY GET INVOLVED IN THE FIRST PLACE AND SECOND GONNA LEAD ME ON AND THIRDLY TELL ME THEY LOVE ME THEN LEAVE WHEN THERE IS FEELINGS THERE???????????????????????????????????????????????????? THAT COMMENT REALLY DID NOT MAKE ANY SENCE..............IF THEY DIDNT WANNA TALK TO ME THEN WHY WAIT TIME DEVELOPING FEELINGS OR LETTING ME DEVELOP FEELINGS?????????????????????????? DUH THINK ABOUT THAT ONE
My baby mom did not leave me i left her she became physically and mentally abusive to me and my boys. i am getting my boys through courts. i am and have been single over a yr now and am refering to the women i have been talking to since the break up of me and the ex.
i must come to my defense with this posting. i have all the "balls" in the world. this has really nothing to do with my question. i do stand up for the things in myt life that are important to me "once again" has nothing to do with my question. now the part about not letting them walk all over me.....that is a trait of a ""soft hearted" person. it is hard for me to see that i am getting walked on till it is to late. i get blinded by love and over-whelmed with my emotion's. or i care to much to a point i dont wanna see it happening so to say. I can see this in myself but have no clue as to how to change that about me. And as i am seeing with this posting , people say i shouldn't change for no one, well how do i fix this problem without changing myself? If i do try to change this about myself how would i begin too?
i would have to say.......just to have peace love and happiness in the world for a change. there is to much hate pain and dishonesty in the world today, and it is getting worse and worse.
THIS ONE GOES OUT TO THE LADIES. WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY YOU LOOK FOR IN A MAN?
last comment was to the "i heard you the first time"