Why do nice guys never get the girl? ( Archived) (107)

May 13, 2009 11:43 PM CSTWhy do nice guys never get the girl?
chrisgj001
chrisgj001chrisgj001Oak Park, Michigan, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 15 Posts

Why do nice guys never get the girl?(Vote Below)

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Too Shy
12
9%
Don't Take Chances
45
35%
Not as Attractive
8
6%
Don't Stant Out
7
5%
Hard to Find
23
18%
Not as Fun
4
3%
Only "Friend" Material
31
24%
Total Votes
130
pretty self explanatory. give any comments to further explain.
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May 13, 2009 11:49 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Oh come on. My son's a nice guy and also very picky. He won't just take any girl that he could have. So technically he could say: I'm a nice guy and I'm not getting the girl... but the reality is that sometimes he doesn't get the super-hot one that he wants.

So my question to you is: What kind of girls do nice guys not get?
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May 13, 2009 11:50 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Nice guys get lots of women.


Whimpering little wallflowers with no opinions of their own,

don't.
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May 13, 2009 11:51 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
Scubadiva: Oh come on. My son's a nice guy and also very picky. He won't just take any girl that he could have. So technically he could say: I'm a nice guy and I'm not getting the girl... but the reality is that sometimes he doesn't get the super-hot one that he wants.

So my question to you is: What kind of girls do nice guys not get?
thumbs up thats so true, with so many young guys or any guys for that matter.wine
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May 13, 2009 11:54 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
RebeccaWYR
RebeccaWYRRebeccaWYRShanghai, China7 Threads 4 Polls 92 Posts
becoz there too many bad guys......devil
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May 13, 2009 11:55 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
Most of the time nice guys finish last! I've seen so many times abused women constantly go back to the guy.dunno confused peace
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May 13, 2009 11:57 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
There is a young lady seeking a decent guy in a
thread just 7 down from this one right now,
maybe you two should get together?laugh dunno devil
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May 13, 2009 11:59 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
Nice guys do get the girl when the girl matures, but if she Angelina Jolie he will probably have to be cute as well, lol.
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May 13, 2009 11:59 PM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
SirenLydia: There is a young lady seeking a decent guy in a
thread just 7 down from this one right now,
maybe you two should get together?
laugh naughty girl laugh doh
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May 14, 2009 12:01 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Well number one reason is the Nice guy never wants a nice girl , He only wants bad girl. Then he gets all heart broken cause she dumped him for someone more like her a bad guy.professor laugh wink
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May 14, 2009 12:01 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,899 Posts
Girls don't like nice guys? confused
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May 14, 2009 12:02 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
sasseez: naughty girl


dunno but it seemed so obviously right....grin wave devil
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May 14, 2009 12:03 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
drbombay: Most of the time nice guys finish last! I've seen so many times abused women constantly go back to the guy.
Yeah that is cause they have been severely abused and brain washed into believing he is the only one that will care about her that no one else will ever love her worthless ugly butt.professor frustrated very mad
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May 14, 2009 12:04 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Inthewoods: Girls don't like nice guys?
Yes we do but if he acts like a wall flower how the hell do we women know he likes us.doh laugh
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May 14, 2009 12:08 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
mylifewithu: Yes we do but if he acts like a wall flower how the hell do we women know he likes us.
bouquet
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May 14, 2009 12:09 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
mylifewithu: Yeah that is cause they have been severely abused and brain washed into believing he is the only one that will care about her that no one else will ever love her worthless ugly butt.
I've seen women go from one bad to another, then they complain but their attracted to that type(opposites attract)professor frustrated very mad
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May 14, 2009 12:11 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
chrisgj001: pretty self explanatory. give any comments to further explain.
I think nice guys just have to try a little harder.
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May 14, 2009 12:17 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
chrisgj001: pretty self explanatory. give any comments to further explain.


You mean you need help...if thats the case follow this link and the secret will be revealed...roll eyes

ddeangelo@doubleyourdating.com
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May 14, 2009 12:35 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
jashcd
jashcdjashcdhome, United Arab Emirates184 Threads 110 Polls 985 Posts
Answer is girls always like hurt them self they need to weep so we cant do any think let them to do that bro ..............

its true always nice guys never get nice girls always get .........some ............. mumbling mumbling
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May 14, 2009 12:45 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
jashcd: Answer is girls always like hurt them self they need to weep so we cant do any think let them to do that bro ..............

its true always nice guys never get nice girls always get .........some .............


Erm, with all due respect, this is NOT true. If these are they kind of girls you have found then, I am sorry for you, you have been looking in the wrong places.

What about the quiet girl that knows the answers to the Questions in class, b/c she studies, while all you "Nice" guys are out dating the ones that break you hearts.

She is the one you never give another glance to, even when she has let you know she is interested, you embarrassedly looked over your shoulder to see if anyone else saw and rush her off.

How do I know? I was one of them and still am a nice girl.
wine wine wine
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May 14, 2009 1:10 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
well..i don't think you need to be either a nice guy or a bad guy to get a woman. You just need to be a GUY/MAN for that matter. Besides, women are not something to be "gotten" like some commodities. They occupy half of this world and therefore, they must be treated as equal partner for the betterment of this world.
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May 14, 2009 1:12 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
mnowsa: well..i don't think you need to be either a nice guy or a bad guy to get a woman. You just need to be a GUY/MAN for that matter. Besides, women are not something to be "gotten" like some commodities. They occupy half of this world and therefore, they must be treated as equal partner for the betterment of this world.
thumbs up wine grin thats a man with a brain
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May 14, 2009 1:16 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
mnowsa: well..i don't think you need to be either a nice guy or a bad guy to get a woman. You just need to be a GUY/MAN for that matter. Besides, women are not something to be "gotten" like some commodities. They occupy half of this world and therefore, they must be treated as equal partner for the betterment of this world.
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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May 14, 2009 1:18 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
Hiwave
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May 14, 2009 1:18 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
ali110: Hi
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May 14, 2009 1:21 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Because he's afraid to admit that
he's a man and that he has priorties
to live up to...".
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May 14, 2009 1:22 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
goldstone
goldstonegoldstoneSomewhere Inn, Colorado USA2 Threads 243 Posts
I'm a fairly nice guy... and I even give flowers and presents to some (boy did those sure backfire), but I can't get a girl whether she is 'Good' or 'Bad' as far as it goes. So somebody deduce that - This is one nice guy that ain't finishing at all!
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May 14, 2009 1:28 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
CjTenorSax: I never have!!! So don't paint us all with the same brush!!!!!


which is why i said women don't really know what they want, or is lying, and i don't think you know what you want, this comes from a guy who used to be a nice guy and every girl, found the bad boy more to their liking, and i;ve seen it a hundred times with other guys.
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May 14, 2009 1:31 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
In response to jaynimble and rillyniceguy, although you may right in some instances, I would like to point out some important issues with regard to the whole spectrum of men GETTING women.

1.you really want to GET a woman? you just go and tell her that you like her and u want to marry her. But i think any man ever does that simply because he thinks that he can "enjoy" her whenever and however he desires.

2.these days, women are also under a lot of pressure and therefore they don't really have the time or energy to entertain men as much as they would like to. And guess what, it is the fault of men also.

3. women are like flowers no matter how tough they look or sound in their exterior. if you want to enjoy that flower, you need to nurture them instead of putting condition on them.
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May 14, 2009 1:32 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
jaynimble: which is why i said women don't really know what they want, or is lying, and i don't think you know what you want, this comes from a guy who used to be a nice guy and every girl, found the bad boy more to their liking, and i;ve seen it a hundred times with other guys.


Go back and re-read my post:

jashcd: Answer is girls always like hurt them self they need to weep so we cant do any think let them to do that bro ..............

its true always nice guys never get nice girls always get .........some .............


Erm, with all due respect, this is NOT true. If these are they kind of girls you have found then, I am sorry for you, you have been looking in the wrong places.

What about the quiet girl that knows the answers to the Questions in class, b/c she studies, while all you "Nice" guys are out dating the ones that break your hearts.

She is the one you never give another glance to, even when she has let you know she is interested, you embarrassedly looked over your shoulder to see if anyone else saw and rush her off.

How do I know? I was one of them and still am a nice girl.

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May 14, 2009 1:45 AM CST Why do nice guys never get the girl?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
mnowsa: In response to jaynimble and rillyniceguy, although you may right in some instances, I would like to point out some important issues with regard to the whole spectrum of men GETTING women.

1.you really want to GET a woman? you just go and tell her that you like her and u want to marry her. But i think any man ever does that simply because he thinks that he can "enjoy" her whenever and however he desires.

2.these days, women are also under a lot of pressure and therefore they don't really have the time or energy to entertain men as much as they would like to. And guess what, it is the fault of men also.

3. women are like flowers no matter how tough they look or sound in their exterior. if you want to enjoy that flower, you need to nurture them instead of putting condition on them.


The problem with women and nice guys is this. Very few nice women. They no longer have the natural affection and love they once had. This is due to being used by the bad boys that excited them as women got the chance. When In high school, girls had no damn sense about life and were immature. I expected it to be different in the adult world.....but they are the same. There are some loving, caring, sweet women around but are hard to find. I look at the spirit, not the body. There are women who demand to be Goddess and rule all....and there are those subdued who are wanting a White Knight to solve all her problems. Both love themselves......I am looking for a woman to love me and to be loved by me. They have lost their natural affection because of things and self. To find a pretty woman who is of a natural affection is rare....very rare! About like finding a diamond in a rock pile.
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