Actually, I have a lot of friends on here. I am sorry that you and I have never met before or that you have never read my posts before. Maybe you did. Maybe you just did not care to pay attention to someone you never met before. Maybe you prefer to converse with people who are more in proximity to where you live. I really don't know.
And yes. Silly me. I did post my concerns on a public forum, which indeed does invite strangers to lambaste me. You did ask the questions and I did answer them.
Sadly I did not answer them to your satisfaction. And also sadly, you did not take the time to get to know me better.
Perhaps in the future we will have an understanding about one another and be in mutual positions to help one another.
In respect, I thank you very kindly for voicing your heartfelt opinions on my concern.
Okay, one more time. We have faith in you. We know you have a heart. At least we hope so. Read it again. Only this time, don't respond until tomorrow. That way you have a chance to sleep on it. We have hope in you.
Morgan, I know it sounded... well, not quite right. I just wanted to answer your and her questions. What I wrote is all I know. And that is that. It is very frusterating for me. I too have mostly male friends, but would never put them in front of my partner. They would never ask me to. They would support me in my relationship. But what you are saying is that your friends come first and that is what I should allow him to do? That is what I should do? Friends come first? This does not sit right with me. Please Advise. K
Hey JB and Morgan! Thanks for trusting me on this one. Okay, let me clear up the ???. I have NO clue who Janeen is other than the conversation is carried on at least 3 times a week (former classmate is what I am told, do I belive it? Not really). Why would I have a problem with it? Because it was over 30 years ago if it is indeed a former classmate -- say bye bye. Yes everyone is entitled to have "friends", but I come first. Sorry. That is the way it works, here. Selfish? Maybe. But what would you do? Put yourself on back seat to a "former classmate"? I don't think so. I have invested nearly a year in this relationship and I won't be put on the back seat. Item next? Oh the sink. Damned if I know too. All I know is I got put on hold after the chickie babe and also after the "sink." Clear, darlings? You now know what I know. Even made a phone call and said "you don't get to do this to me." Someone got very angry. I was not me. I can't do this ladies. Not anymore. If you have more to say, I would very much like to hear it.
Alright lovlies. At least I know I have three friends out there that care. That is enough for me. Thank you so much for your thoughts and Miss Kitty will tuck in for the night.
As an old woman, I can't do this anymore.
I am sure those who read this, well, maybe you will understand. And maybe for the youth, well maybe not.
Thanks, man. Thank you for comforting me on this eve. I am feeling much much better. I appreciate your agreeing with me. Makes me feel that I am not wrong after all.
Hey cruzers. I know you are looking at the thread and not writing. Don't be afraid to chime in. Don't just surf. BE involved. I want to know what you think. You are a part of this membership. BE a part of it. Do it! You did not sign up for nothing you know.
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My turn "and he was bad" ????
Wow. That is pretty bold.Actually, I have a lot of friends on here.
I am sorry that you and I have never met before or that you have never read my posts before. Maybe you did. Maybe you just did not care to pay attention to someone you never met before. Maybe you prefer to converse with people who are more in proximity to where you live. I really don't know.
And yes. Silly me. I did post my concerns on a public forum, which indeed does invite strangers to lambaste me. You did ask the questions and I did answer them.
Sadly I did not answer them to your satisfaction. And also sadly, you did not take the time to get to know me better.
Perhaps in the future we will have an understanding about one another and be in mutual positions to help one another.
In respect, I thank you very kindly for voicing your heartfelt opinions on my concern.
Warmest regard,
Kitty