Dragonfly86 Forum Posts (19)

RE: are people more selfish than they use to be.

My children knew when they walked in my door from their fathers that it was not tolerated. Their father lost interest in them for a while til they grew up til they were less work. My children knew the rules at my home and they knew they had unconditional love and will always have it but their behavior would not.
It took time and a great deal a patience but they know . I never put their father down in front of them and if I had a disagreement with some of the things he did I made sure to dicuss it away from the children. As I have said before i would rather suffer then my children

RE: are people more selfish than they use to be.

I work with children in need .
We see alot of children that have been adversly affected by divorce. Mothers give in to their child because they have no father present in their lives and feel that giving them everything they want is a way to placade them yet at schools and other activities other adults pay the price.

I am not saying all single moms are like that!! Because my children are my world.
But some people do not have the knowledge to know better. I have often said it is harder to adopt a dog from the SPCA then it is to have a child !!

RE: can some one fix my broken heart

i agree
No one can do it for you. you have to be strong enough to pick up your boot straps and carry on. I can guarantee it will happen again. you just have to keep at it if you want to find the "one"

RE: Hairs on the chest of the guy or no hairs

I prefer hair on a mans chest .
Gives you something extra to play with. If it nice and soft it makes me purr

RE: Do you truly in your heart think you could meet your soul mate on an online singles web-site

Here goes I know people will probably have all kinds of things to say about this but I don't beleive in soul mates or love. It is only illusoins. Men (in my case) tend to prentend to be someone totally different then what they really are.

You fall for the illusion they have projected. I know this sounds sinical but that's how it is...

RE: any honest woman left?

Ok !

What is going on here.
The men on this site seem to have the idea that women are cheaters or liars !

I know I am not a liar. To be put in the same boat as the women that have hurt you sadens me. I have been refered to as brutally honest by many people including men.

I am sorry you have met women that have hurt you. No one deserves the hurt attached to lies.

me

RE: any local ladies ready for a real man!?

well from what I saw of your last picture I don't think that there isn't much to you

mon ami

RE: why why why why ?????

You learn something new everyday. I am sure commitment scares alot of people.

RE: why why why why ?????

Could be a variety of things. You should just relax. Don't rush you will probably scare the crap out of them.

RE: hi..me never serious here and me like only pretty ladies

Just on the internet ?

RE: date

I would

RE: hi..me never serious here and me like only pretty ladies

Leave it to a texan to have such a narrow view. You msut have had a horse kick you in the head.

RE: Why Dont Older Ladies Like Younger Men ?

I don't think it has anything to do with age. When a woman goes out with someoen she just doesn't want to be babysitting. I guess it would have to do with the life experience thing. But I have met guys that are very mature for their age . Like I said depends on personnality.

RE: What would be the maximum acceptable age gap (younger or older) for you?

Why is the age difference to much of a difference . Alot of men would not even hesitate to go out with a woman 25 years younger then them, why should you. If youhave common interests and get along why not try it!!

RE: Hello is connecting Singles just for email ?

Look carfeully at the sped they type, the words they type, you will know how they feel. But talking and meeting is better that is why phones were invented. Although I have not met the man for me, but I know he is out there.

Chin up

RE: Hello is connecting Singles just for email ?

Look carfeully at the sped they type, the words they type, you will know how they feel. But talking and meeting is better that is why phones were invented. Although I have not met the man for me, but I know he is out there.

Chin up

RE: maximum women don't know what they are looking!

I do agree with Bentlee. Like minded people are drawn to each other. If your priority is how much money you make then you will attract a woman that likes the amount of money you make.

RE: men on the run???

I have raised my two kids mostly by myself.
I didn't even start dating til this year because they were my priority.

All the men that I have gone out on dates with know before hand that I have children. Alot of men don't run, the maturity level is probably not there be it man or woman. If they run they don't know what they're missing.

I can't have anymore children and I find that is harder to deal with then having kids. Because alot of men would like to have more children when they meet the right woman.

Just be patient, the right one will come along.

RE: Do you care how old is your partner?

I am seeing a guy that is 10 years younger then me. He is more mature then alot of men my age, knows what he wants. Although I know he is definetly not in the norm for his age. I think it just depends on the personnality.

By the way you do know that grandepensees meane big thoughts right. Was that why you chose that name ?