men on the run??? ( Archived) (81)

Sep 22, 2009 6:36 PM CST men on the run???
deisecat
deisecatdeisecatwaterford, Waterford Ireland2 Threads 7 Posts
am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???confused dunno dunno
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Sep 22, 2009 6:38 PM CST men on the run???
kekei
kekeikekeikingston, Kingston Jamaica62 Threads 1 Polls 588 Posts
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


what is your problem, they run, that means they are out of your way, so move on. I hope you find the right guy for your family. good luck.comfort
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Sep 22, 2009 6:40 PM CST men on the run???
TLC69
TLC69TLC69duncannon, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 270 Posts
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


When you steal a MANS heart, it won't matter how many children you have only that you have his heart.

Be patient. (easier said than done)
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Sep 22, 2009 6:45 PM CST men on the run???
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???



Some men just aren't cut out to be dads or really don't want to raise another mans children.Just like some of us women.
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Sep 22, 2009 6:58 PM CST men on the run???
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
Thru personal experience, such as dating a woman with 2 little ones, I didn't want someone with kids (at home) as I had already brought two into the world.
I'm at the point in life where I don't want to raise any more children





Earl
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Sep 22, 2009 7:04 PM CST men on the run???
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


.........Same thing with me Lady....many a time, when I mentioned I am a Solo Father to a Lady....You can see in there Eyes, 'Whoops...Time to run, not interested anymore'....I even had one Lady say to my face,and 'Kudos' to her for saying it ..... 'You have Children,and I see it in you,that they will always come 'first'...and I can't handle that'........Have a think on that one...Lady... grin


J.Dgrin devil
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Sep 22, 2009 7:04 PM CST men on the run???
virgiomonkey: .........Same thing with me Lady....many a time, when I mentioned I am a Solo Father to a Lady....You can see in there Eyes, 'Whoops...Time to run, not interested anymore'....I even had one Lady say to my face,and 'Kudos' to her for saying it ..... 'You have Children,and I see it in you,that they will always come 'first'...and I can't handle that'........Have a think on that one...Lady... J.D



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Sep 22, 2009 7:11 PM CST men on the run???
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
i think there should be a network where single parents with kids would be able to connect to each other much more reliably and positive effect.dunno
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Sep 22, 2009 8:02 PM CST men on the run???
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
Sep 22, 2009 9:44 PM CST men on the run???
sweetesttee
sweetestteesweetestteelawrenceville, New Jersey USA3 Threads 35 Posts
If they run they weren't meant for you don't let the door hit them where the good Lord split them I say anyone you chose has to fit in your life completely and that means all of your lives.

My son is first and foremost parenting is full of sacrifices but they are worth it.
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Sep 22, 2009 9:50 PM CST men on the run???
wyowilly
wyowillywyowillylabarge, Wyoming USA6 Threads 570 Posts
sweetesttee: If they run they weren't meant for you don't let the door hit them where the good Lord split them I say anyone you chose has to fit in your life completely and that means all of your lives.

My son is first and foremost parenting is full of sacrifices but they are worth it.


You got it Sis!!!!thumbs up It's harder for a single parent to find a compatible mate for all involved but they're out there
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Sep 22, 2009 11:24 PM CST men on the run???
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
deisecat:

am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


Being a mom by choice you gotta understand and respect others' rights for a choice too.

Besides, them being honest with you is admirable, no? You don't want someone who resents you little girl to be around them.

If it's a man for you, he won't pass you by.

Good luck.
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Sep 22, 2009 11:30 PM CST men on the run???
Cougar_cat
Cougar_catCougar_catPhuket, Southern Thailand Thailand9 Threads 60 Posts
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


I'm a single mom too! If they run then they not for you that's all... I don't care at all and i respect also that's they choice... But will have someone out there who understand you well and you will find Mr. Right and Mr. Acceptable of your choice and your kids just don't stop and let's ur self down with those guys who ran away.... Keep moving on...

peace cheering head banger wave
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Sep 22, 2009 11:32 PM CST men on the run???
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
I'm a single man with a cat ......and all women run from me .......so, you see we're all in the same boat......laugh
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Sep 22, 2009 11:34 PM CST men on the run???
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
jvaski: I'm a single man with a cat ......and all women run from me .......so, you see we're all in the same boat......


.....................laugh laugh laugh thumbs up ....

J.Dgrin devil
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Sep 22, 2009 11:36 PM CST men on the run???
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


There are plenty of single fathers out here too. Try them. Also, men always scream, "No kids! No dogs! No cats! No THis! No That! No nothing ever! We're gonna live in an empty white box shaped apartment and you will be my maid!" Um, WRONG. A lot of them crack and cave in eventually, don't they? devil
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Sep 22, 2009 11:36 PM CST men on the run???
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
i know the reason.... but i've already done enough pissing off for one day so i'll save it.....

plus yall aint ready for the TRUTH !!!!!

grin
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Sep 22, 2009 11:40 PM CST men on the run???
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
jvaski: I'm a single man with a cat ......and all women run from me .......so, you see we're all in the same boat......


I got sick & tired of running from men with cats.

This last one is too good to run from, it's not fare to me - oooooooppppss... I just let the cat out of the house... accidentally dunno


cool cats meow talk to hand listen to music
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Sep 22, 2009 11:42 PM CST men on the run???
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Laura25: I got sick & tired of running from men with cats.

This last one is too good to run from, it's not fare to me - oooooooppppss... I just let the cat out of the house... accidentally


THAT is bad ! Cat's are people too ya know ....scold
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Sep 22, 2009 11:43 PM CST men on the run???
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...

i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...

anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???


I might be interested ......BTW,,,How old are your girls ? devil
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