men on the run??? (81)
deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
mines usually ran after they met the kids ...must admit tho I wanted to run wae them sometimes ..
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Witchaywoman: There are plenty of single fathers out here too. Try them. Also, men always scream, "No kids! No dogs! No cats! No THis! No That! No nothing ever! We're gonna live in an empty white box shaped apartment and you will be my maid!" Um, WRONG. A lot of them crack and cave in eventually, don't they?
Npe...No caving in. When we say no, we mean no...
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Mulberry4000: erm so you chosed to be a single mother, erm what about your children they did nto choose to be with dad. What about the father, does he see them, or do you stop him or does he not care. In general i stay away from women who have kids, because its a nightmare, the guy always ends up loosing, esp with her kids etc then u have the ex to deal with. Its just not worth it. Men who come into a ready made family are always going to be the outsider. But most important of all, if a woman said she became a single parent by choice i would head for the hills. As a man it would be her saying i will dump any time i wish and if i have child with you, your role or the childs emotion play second fiddle to mine. I wish western women would wise up and realise that there is billions of women out there in the world who are not like this and would not dream becoming a single parent on their own.
Children need fathers, you may not need a man but your children does.
If this how you think then you cannot really complain that man are not talking to you.
best wishes
Children need fathers, you may not need a man but your children does.
If this how you think then you cannot really complain that man are not talking to you.
best wishes
...........Excellent post,Good Sir....About Four weeks ago I had a massive bum fight with an Western European New Zealand Social Engineering Feminist who mouth off in no uncertain terms that Fathers were not necessary in a Child development into days Society....in fact she said she considered a Fathers presence a 'hindrance' in the Child's Life.....Did I let rip..???..you bet I did.......
J.D
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deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
I`m a single father of 4-little boys .... so how about it....
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thanks for that found nice guy to chat to dont know if hes the one
but not running just yet see wha happens...gud luck yo ypurself and txs
but not running just yet see wha happens...gud luck yo ypurself and txs
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I am a single mother of four!! I just met a guy who has five!!! Two are grown and three live with him!! Look out Brady Bunch we out number you!! lol You just got to find the right one. Have faith it will happen. If they run away, let em run.
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Oh and another thing I want to say. If you are just dating someone and just starting out with them, don't get your kids involved with that. Not everything you do in life has to involve your children. It is too heart breaking for them to meet someone, become attached then have them taken away. They need to know you HAVE kids but not have to be INVOLVED with them. Not right away I mean.
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i dont mind a girl with children.... nothing wrong with having a trophy (or 20) to show the can at least do ONE thing right !!!!!!!
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deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
The fear of commitment to an instant family seems to be the key. The freedom to come and go with you is not there as the children must come first.
I am in a similar situation where I am raising my little granddaughter by choice. I state in my profile that I am not looking for a Dad or a spouse. Some email me because of that to praise my decision. Others still have a hard time with the fact that I have her. A nice guy will come along at some point. Hang in there until he does.
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My Husband had 2 girls..
I have 2 boys..
If i had none..i think he would have ran the other way
I have 2 boys..
If i had none..i think he would have ran the other way
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I have no intentions of raising any more kids, but if some "HOTTIE" wants to (attempt to) raise "THIS KID" here I am..
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HJFinAZ: I have no intentions of raising any more kids, but if some "HOTTIE" wants to (attempt to) raise "THIS KID" here I am..
ur a big kid at heart
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Funny I get the same, only from women lol. It doesn't keep me down, I keep looking and just enjoy my life!
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deisecat: am single mum of 2 little girls and i work 2 jobs,but yet when i mention the kids...men lose interest....is it fear of commitment....or what is it...
i am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
I do not know why most men run I would not but why do women run when they her the word kids? I have had many turn and run but the right one will come one dayi am a single mam by choice and they have a dad so not looking to replace them but nor can they livek in the attic....we are a package and they are 2 very sweet little girls...
anyone find the same....or know why men run when they hear the word kids...???
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hunter30: I do not know why most men run I would not but why do women run when they her the word kids? I have had many turn and run but the right one will come one day
Yes sir! Just remember to any parent out there, male or female. If someone runs when they hear the word "Kid/kids" they weren't worth your time or the effort anyway.
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I have raised my two kids mostly by myself.
I didn't even start dating til this year because they were my priority.
All the men that I have gone out on dates with know before hand that I have children. Alot of men don't run, the maturity level is probably not there be it man or woman. If they run they don't know what they're missing.
I can't have anymore children and I find that is harder to deal with then having kids. Because alot of men would like to have more children when they meet the right woman.
Just be patient, the right one will come along.
I didn't even start dating til this year because they were my priority.
All the men that I have gone out on dates with know before hand that I have children. Alot of men don't run, the maturity level is probably not there be it man or woman. If they run they don't know what they're missing.
I can't have anymore children and I find that is harder to deal with then having kids. Because alot of men would like to have more children when they meet the right woman.
Just be patient, the right one will come along.
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My kids are grown... Thank you Lord. BUT... I remember those days. Just be patient, and do not look so hard, you will find him.... I promise, even with kids.
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and lordy lordy you did sweet thang, i love you pub.
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I've had many friends that date a single mom, they get very attached to the kids, then something happens in the relationship and they break up. Well you are just a boyfriend and even if your married to the person; you are probably never going to see those kids again.
I've seen many a friend heartbroken after dating a single mom and it doesnt' work out and the kids are just erased from their lives.
I'm really shocked you dont see these problems.