SHYGIRL31 Forum Posts (574)

RE: What physical aspect of the person abv U would you trade for you own?

Lene's hair, i love it! I would definitely trade for that!

RE: What physical aspect of the person abv U would you trade for you own?

I love her eyes and she has a beautiful complexion...so, i'd trade those! She exudes strength in character and is a classy woman, you can see it in her eyes and through her insightful posts.

RE: who makes the best wifes... american women or women from over seas???

Who 'makes' the best wives???? You have to be kidding me, what is this world coming to? Geez, it doesn't matter where you were born, there are plenty of 'spoiled' women overseas too you know, it all depends on the environment you were raised in, there are so many more factors than your country of origin!

RE: What physical aspect of the person abv U would you trade for you own?

Aw, shucks, thank you so much:grin
However, there would be no need to trade for looks, you're already pretty and i just love your eyes...i would trade for those!

RE: What physical aspect of the person abv U would you trade for you own?

This was yet another forgotten thread, so i thought i would revive it!
I would trade for tumpa's dimples, oh, and the fact that physically, he lives in Ottawa, and seeing as my brother lives there(minimum of 4 1/2 hours from me), and i don't get to see him as much as i'd like, i would trade places, at least for a day or a weekend. My boyfriend lives in Mississauga, so i couldn't be in Ottawa for too long!

RE: Ask Krista :):)

Oh i see, very nice....Glad you're having a great time!
He bought you a plane ticket? If that's not love, i don't know what is! Happy to have you in Canada for the summer, did you enjoy Canada Day?

RE: Ask Krista :):)

Yes i gathered that! How do you like St. Catharines? Have you ever been to Canada before?

RE: Ask Krista :):)

What do you think of Canadians?

RE: look who decided to drop in

Hey Shaun(it is Shaun right?!?)
I remember you! You were the very first person to welcome me to the forums when i did my very first thread! Glad to see ya back! Happy to hear that you've been keeping busy, but still single though eh? Well, not to worry, i am sure the lucky lady's is waiting for you just around the corner, you never know what tomorrow will bring! :bye:

RE: What Is It......

What?!?! You call 95 pounds fat?

RE: What Is It......

ohhhhh....it must be the water!I can be a bit of a procrastinator as well...it's a conspiracy i tell ya!

RE: CS couples!!!!!

Hiya Dave!

We're not a 'new' couple, been together for over 8 months now...i wouldn't have expected you to know us, as i am rarely in the forums and my man never joins in on the fun...so, shygirl31 & redheadsport or more formally put... Melissa & Dennis

RE: What Is It......

Hey! I can relate to that as well! At least mostly, bottle things up until the pressure builds...i feel sorry for the ones around me when the cap pops off of the bottle! My brother is a Pisces and he's definitely a typical Pisces, but unique in so many ways. I don't think it's something you could change even if you wanted to, it's hard-wired into your system...a part of who you are, why change that?

RE: What Is It......

I see this thread is taking a an alternate route!
To answer the original question, what i don't particularly like about myself, but have come to accept, and grow a certain appreciation for is...so obvious, my shy and quiet nature. However, this is not a bad thing, i am just more observational, there is a lot to learn just from watching. I don't often convey my thoughts, but i do consider myself to have plenty of emotional and intellectual depth and i do have a lot to say, i just don't always say it! However, with those i am completely complacent with, i can be a lot more open and extroverted.

RE: Ask Krista :):)

Aw, shucks thanks! You're awesome Krista! You are dead on, very insightful...the shyness has indeed become a part of me, i know it. Everything you said is accurate, thank you so much, i appreciate you taking the time to reply.
I think you and Matt make a great couple too! I am absolutely ecstatic that you found eachother, especailly through here
I hope you're enjoying everything Ontario has to offer, best wishes to you!

RE: Ask Krista :):)

Two questions....will i ever overcome my shyness and do you think my boyfriend(redheadsport) and i look good together? The pic on my profile is not the best one of us!

RE: How would a shy guy get a cute girl to like him?

Well...from one shy person to another...you can't 'get' someone to like you, it's unnatural and is lacking honesty, to yourself and everyone else. What i would recommend is be yourself, act natually - people will either like you or they don't...but to act uncharacteristically and trying to be something you're not, just to be noticed or liked, is dishonest and eventually the truth will emerge from beneath the surface, don't hide behind a facade. Be confident in yourself, if you are, it will radiate outwards onto those around you...confidence goes a long way! Trust me when i say, there are plenty of people who are attracted to shyness, so don't give up, the right one will come along, practice patience! Good luck!

RE: When was the last time you spent that night with that special one?

The last night? Easy...that would've been this past Saturday night with my man, and then there's tommorrow night and the remainder of the Canada Day weekend,there will be lots of fireworks indeed!

RE: JUST HAVE DO THIS THREAD,THIS IS DEDICATED TO IF YOU FOUND YOUR MAN ON A DATING SITE

I found my sweetie here too! Dang i'm so lucky
Though i was a skeptic, i am now a believer!

RE: What is YOUR sign???????

My sign??? Well, the first one would be "Proceed with Caution".....hmmmm i'll add more later, to be continued.....

Support Group for the Members who are feeling Blue & having a Hard time coping...

I can relate to that statement Keith...i have a good idea of what i need to let go of though, the past! i need to live in the moment and not dwell on what has already come to pass, but it's a difficult process, letting go, essentially starting over with a clean slate i presume. I just don't know where to begin, how to go about altering my mindset...i'm still the little girl who's afraid of the dark, afraid of the unknown, stepping forward with uncertainty.

Congratulations on being sober for 13 years! I'm sure it hasn't been easy and i believe it takes considerable courage to persevere, so kudos to you!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, have a great night!

Support Group for the Members who are feeling Blue & having a Hard time coping...

I agree with that statement wholeheartedly Dcarson

Anyway, i had a great weekend, but am a little down again, just can't seem to snap out of the rut that i'm in...(could be because it's Monday!)my migraines could be the source of my less than enthusiastic mood, as well as an abundance of other things, though i do try to remain optimistic!

Anyone else feeling a little down tonight Anyone wish to share their thoughts/feelings, anybody just want to vent?

Dang, i need a drink!

RE: OoooOOoooOOooo Caaaaaanada!!

First of all, good day my fellow Canadian(s)!
Well, i have the opportunity to spend the Canada Day weekend up at my cottage with my man...so i can guarantee...there will be fireworks!

Haha! Other than that, we'll be drinking, watching fireworks, barbecuing, swimming, stargazing, hiking, boating....relaxing a bit too! I know it will be a great weekend indeed!

RE: What is in a number?

Favorite number(s)...well let see: 7, 11 and 31, but i can't tell ya why i choose those, cause if i did i'd have to....well you know... Just kidding I do have reasons for picking them, but prefer not to devulge that bit of info....but i do love numbers in general, perhaps i could even be considered a bit number obsessive! I too have an appreciation for the #69

RE: Noob over here!

Hiya there! Welcome newbies to the site and forums...hope you find what it is ya'll seek Good luck and have fun

RE: What up my peeps!

Haha, i did too!

RE: HI PEOPLE!

Hello there and welcome to the forums, have fun!

RE: General questions about the ladies

Haha! Too funny Lydia...and yes, the answer is yes!

RE: Happy &ucking Friday All.....................

I will be spending the weekend with my boyfriend, he'll be arriving sometime in the evening, so i am very much looking forward to his impending arrival. I have had a very stressful week and require A LOT of stress relief! So, i know what i will be 'doing' this weekend...

Support Group for the Members who are feeling Blue & having a Hard time coping...

You do indeed have a great sense of humour, a great asset to the forums!
Finding the humour in a tough situation can indeed make coping easier. I guess it's true, no matter how bad you think your life is, somebody's is 10 times worse...i know there are people in a lot worse situations then me, and i am grateful for what i do have, but sometimes when i reflect, it saddens me, but i can't turn the clock back, i don't want to, i can only look forward to the future, but i also attempt to live for the moment, cause there will never be another like it. Having good friends and family, and the unconditional love and support they offer, can take you far in life...all we need is love!

Thanks for your reply!