Everyone seems to be so busy looking for something more, maybe we are letting the right person slip through are fingers sometimes ... just rethinking people who I threw on the scrap heap to find out they had qualities I had missed
My Miss Gizzy, at 13, lets me know when she needs to go to the vet by sitting on the sheep-skin rug .... she is currently laid up with a fractured leg!
Many European countries are new to racially different people, not used to integration, like the US, UK, Canada or Australia. It's about them, not you. Just keep smiling, the right person will respond some day soon.
Wrong time isnt just alchohol, it's thinking you need something/someone to be ok. We are all enough for ouselves, but no-one is going to tell us that, we have to find that out for ourselves...
Would you recognise the right person if they did appear?
Commitment issues?