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Sep 27, 2009 8:52 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
rob4u777
rob4u777rob4u777Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)94 Threads 195 Posts
Divorce is very high in the USA...perhaps 80%....the relationships are not lasting very long these days.

i say cheating and money are the main issues.

What do you think?
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Sep 27, 2009 8:54 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
marriagelaugh laugh
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Sep 27, 2009 9:00 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
Falling into lust..falling out of lust....love was never there.
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Sep 27, 2009 9:01 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
rdnckgrl
rdnckgrlrdnckgrlMargaritaville, Tennessee USA1 Threads 303 Posts
Lack of communication conversing
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Sep 27, 2009 9:03 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
hoaithu
hoaithuhoaithuSaigon, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam1 Threads 41 Posts
rdnckgrl: Lack of communication


That's what I think too. thumbs up
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Sep 27, 2009 9:06 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.


Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking
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Sep 27, 2009 9:06 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
woodzchick: Falling into lust..falling out of lust....love was never there.


Wow so true!

rdnckgrl: Lack of communication


With all the mobile\cell phones, radios, satelite dishes internet etc., how can that be possible? rolling on the floor laughing

Seriously yes, thats also true sadly...
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Sep 27, 2009 9:06 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
rdnckgrl
rdnckgrlrdnckgrlMargaritaville, Tennessee USA1 Threads 303 Posts
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking



thumbs up BINGO !
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Sep 27, 2009 9:07 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
rdnckgrl
rdnckgrlrdnckgrlMargaritaville, Tennessee USA1 Threads 303 Posts
LoveableOne: Wow so true!
With all the mobilecell phones, radios, satelite dishes internet etc., how can that be possible?

Seriously yes, thats also true sadly...


tongue
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Sep 27, 2009 9:07 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking


Hi some, well said..
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Sep 27, 2009 9:09 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking
and just plain old selfishness wine wine thumbs up
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Sep 27, 2009 9:09 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
LoveableOne: Hi some, well said..



Hi sweet man.Thank you.
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Sep 27, 2009 9:10 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
oldernwiser101
oldernwiser101oldernwiser101Hutchinson, Kansas USA1 Threads 121 Posts
rdnckgrl: Lack of communication


That and lack of true love and commitment to the other person. Seems like these days most people are not into making it work when times get rough when it is just so easy to walk away without giving any effort at making things work JMO professor
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Sep 27, 2009 9:14 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Divorces often happen because people rarely discuss their expectations in detail prior to marriage, are less willing to work on their marriages afterwards, and would like quick solutions rather than having to resolve issues.

But who really knows; people get married for the wrong reasons and get divorce for the right reasons! Believe this and I will marry you!!!!
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Sep 27, 2009 9:19 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
My mom and dad have been married 46 years. There was times when things got rough, but they are even more in love today, as the first time they met. One time I asked my dad what was one of the happiest times in his life. He said other than us children, the day he met my mother.

People do not work at marriage anymore. When things get hard, they bail out. I think of all the times that my mom and dad could of bailed out and didn't. I really admire them for hanging in there and I can see the love between them.purple heart
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Sep 27, 2009 10:12 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking
thumbs up thumbs up

Lack of being on the same
page in terms of values b4 getting married.

hug
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Sep 27, 2009 10:19 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
I think there are alot of reason's, people don't take marriage seriously anymore--they figure if they have a disagreement it's easier to just say to hell with thing's and divorce than try and work it out....
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Sep 27, 2009 10:21 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
a lack of commitment to staying together
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Sep 27, 2009 10:21 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking


And

CjTenorSax: Lack of being on the same
page in terms of values b4 getting married.


Good answers!!thumbs up thumbs up

Wouldn't real deep friendship before marriage/commitment solve all those? dunno
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Sep 27, 2009 10:23 PM CST What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
tina_olson: I think there are alot of reason's, people don't take marriage seriously anymore--they figure if they have a disagreement it's easier to just say to hell with thing's and divorce than try and work it out....


I agree, but there also those that stay married allot longer and suffer for trying too hard and too long!!
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