That and lack of true love and commitment to the other person. Seems like these days most people are not into making it work when times get rough when it is just so easy to walk away without giving any effort at making things work JMO
Divorces often happen because people rarely discuss their expectations in detail prior to marriage, are less willing to work on their marriages afterwards, and would like quick solutions rather than having to resolve issues.
But who really knows; people get married for the wrong reasons and get divorce for the right reasons! Believe this and I will marry you!!!!
My mom and dad have been married 46 years. There was times when things got rough, but they are even more in love today, as the first time they met. One time I asked my dad what was one of the happiest times in his life. He said other than us children, the day he met my mother.
People do not work at marriage anymore. When things get hard, they bail out. I think of all the times that my mom and dad could of bailed out and didn't. I really admire them for hanging in there and I can see the love between them.
I think there are alot of reason's, people don't take marriage seriously anymore--they figure if they have a disagreement it's easier to just say to hell with thing's and divorce than try and work it out....
tina_olson: I think there are alot of reason's, people don't take marriage seriously anymore--they figure if they have a disagreement it's easier to just say to hell with thing's and divorce than try and work it out....
I agree, but there also those that stay married allot longer and suffer for trying too hard and too long!!
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i say cheating and money are the main issues.
What do you think?