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RE: What has been the weirdest experience you have ever had on the internet ? let's have sum fun lol

In his second email to me he said he loved me so much! Despite my reply that well we would need a little more time to get to know each other, in his third email he said his mom sent regards to my parents... rolling on the floor laughing

RE: does true love really exist?

True love does exist but it doesn't come to everyone...

RE: Do you have corrupt leaders in your country like the one we have president Zardari?

Politicians are there to serve economic powers... corruption is everywhere, it is just more obvious in one place than the other.

RE: are girls into guys with long or short hair

I have under mine as well. I've got them since I was born and they even looked noticeable in my photos of 6, 7 years old! They are probably getting bigger but I have never had any problem with them grin

RE: are girls into guys with long or short hair

When I was much younger I thought men with long hair were cool (influenced by showbiz maybe!). But now I prefer short hair on men. Long hair does require some good maintenance to look good, and I prefer those men who do not pay too much attention on how they look. I know, I know, I'm being unfair... dunno

RE: How many responses did you receive since you joined?

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RE: Will you date a someone with the same name as your ex?

My friend is married to a guy whose name is the same as her first bf. And her first bf is married to a woman whose name is the same as my friend's. heart beating

RE: What kind of kissing you like most ?

various types of... a soft one in hurry on the cheek before going to work in the morning, a sweaty one when arriving home in the evening, a kitchen-smelled one on the neck while together preparing for dinner or washing up, a deep passionate one in the bed at night...

RE: Signing prenups before marriage

Why bother to get married while we don't trust?

RE: what emotion is when you like somebody more than he likes you.

I was in a similar situation for three years. One day after 3 years I asked him directly what I meant to him and if there was any possibility for a future between us. He couldn't give a direct answer but said he wanted to be with me but there was a number of issues for consideration. I didn't think those "issues" were valid so I stopped seeing/contacting him. It was hurtful with lots of tears at the time but I saw no point to continue.

In few months after that he sent me a whole bunch of texts, emails and postal mails saying how his life was awful without me. So we met up again, he said this time was "to discuss a future which I believe the destiny has mapped out for us". He didn't say a word about that! On the last day before he left for the airport I told him mildly that this is the complete end of the relationship. I had had enough and didn't want to wait for him any longer.

I would suggest you to talk to him directly. It is a waste of time waiting for someone who is not capable of making decisions.

RE: What is the most hated religion in the world?

When I was in India I went to visit Hinduism temples there and met lots of local who told me Budhism is a branch of Hinduism, and Budha was reincarnated by one of the Hindu Gods. To me this sounds very naive. A "branch" means your Gods might be different, the way you show your belief might be different but the fundamental teachings must be the same.

Budhism's teaching is completely different with Hinduism. In fact it is the only religion to advise people "not" to believe in what its Gods say but rather experiencing the life and thinking through it, from there choosing their own way to live. It's the only religion which says anyone has already had its "God", or Budha in themselves and they could choose to become a Budha if they want to. Budha in this case is just a better part of human beings to encourage the kindness of each person. And in Budhism you can't pray to have what you want since what you have or have not now is the consequence of your own acts and behaviors. Budha has no super power to influence over your life to make you healthier or wealthier. In fact many people see Budhism as a phylosophy rather a religion.

I am a Budhist myself. I don't think any religion should be hated except when it is created and exercised to serve political purposes.

RE: Is it ok for a white man to go out with an Indian woman?

Yes this is not rare especially in Eastern cultures. Just recently a girl in my office got married to a local guy. Before the marriage she wasn't allowed to spend a nightout with her bf (now her husband).

I think it all depends on the person whom the OP is dating with. If she is matured enough to know her right and daring enough to protect it, then who cares about what her brother wants?

RE: Is it ok for a white man to go out with an Indian woman?

What about her? Does she want to be with you and prepare to fight for what she want?

RE: Trying to be strong

There are probably other reasons he hasn't told and has no intention to tell you about. But the positive side of this is that it happens before you two get too involved in a family and kids. I wouldn't stay as friends, not until after I know for sure I have let go and moved on.

Im so sorry to hear about your story. I know how hurtful it could be. I hope you will soon forget and move on with a new life. Time is a great healer!

RE: When to date a widowed person...

Sometimes people cry for the memory on the passed-aways keeps reminding how lonely they are. They are sad because they feel lonely rather than because they can't forget their past partners. You seem to have already had an answer for yourself. If I were you I would have done the same until I'm sure he is ready for a new life.

RE: What do you think is critical in keeping a relationship healthy?

Honesty!

RE: HAVE YOU EVER fallen in love with your friend's girlfriend or boyfriend?

Never! The worst thing one could do is to ruin both friendship and relationship!

RE: Why do you finally end a relationship?

More than once my relationships ended for my partner's insecurity!

RE: would you date your partner's best friend?

Nope! I don't want to lose both love and friendship!

RE: At what age do men grow up?

Is there any such "grown-up man"? laugh

RE: which of the following was your best subject at school?

Math!

RE: Are You Afraid Of Commitment?

"You're open to getting serious with someone... though you can't entirely imagine it.
Maybe you haven't met the right person. Maybe you haven't gotten to the right point in your life."

Think it's right!

RE: first meeting...

This happened just 2 hours ago. I asked "is there any shock?". The answer was "not at all, you are exactly the one i've been chatting to!" cheering

RE: OK, now I will ask a serious question..

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English is the most popular language in Asia too. So yes, it's widely used in Asian forums.

A homewrecker! Could somebody tell me this pls!

thumbs up Thank you.

A homewrecker! Could somebody tell me this pls!

I did. thumbs up

A homewrecker! Could somebody tell me this pls!

He said he was single in the profile. I'm not interested in engaged guys!

A homewrecker! Could somebody tell me this pls!

Stay positive... Obama will get things better grin

A homewrecker! Could somebody tell me this pls!

Assuming that was right... how can someone be a homewrecker if she wrote to her hubby only "one time", and just said things like "hello, how are you" in the email? I didn't even reply to his second email!

A homewrecker! Could somebody tell me this pls!

Probably!
rolling on the floor laughing

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