Why do you finally end a relationship? ( Archived) (24)

Oct 21, 2009 4:48 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
Some people stay in relationships even if they aren't happy - for fear of loneliness, fear of not meeting someone else quickly.

Other people will end a relationship even if they think they might be alone for quite some time & with few regrets.

No relationship is perfect. With that in mind, why would you end a relationship?
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Oct 21, 2009 4:59 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
main reason these days is if im not being treated right or unfairly... in the past ive stayed in horrible relationships ..but iwont be treated badly in anyway anymore ....wine
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Oct 21, 2009 5:00 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
amelie13: Some people stay in relationships even if they aren't happy - for fear of loneliness, fear of not meeting someone else quickly.

Other people will end a relationship even if they think they might be alone for quite some time & with few regrets.

No relationship is perfect. With that in mind, why would you end a relationship?


Regarding your second paragraph, I don't want to waste another moment with someone that does not love, have any passion, compassion, and no common sense nor true intelligence.

It's a total waist of my time, energy, and provides no avenue to express my love, passion, compassion, intelligence, spirituality, and aid in my growth as an individual human being or within the union of a beneficial couple.

In other words, it's like not living at all!! grin cool bouquet
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Oct 21, 2009 5:01 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
saseez: main reason these days is if im not being treated right or unfairly... in the past ive stayed in horrible relationships ..but iwont be treated badly in anyway anymore ....
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Oct 21, 2009 5:06 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
ive stayed in arelatioship where i was made to feel like i wasnt worth much but finally realised i didnt want to stay like this.i now know that i deserve to be in a loving caring relatioship with someone who treats me right ....still looking for him laugh
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Oct 21, 2009 5:08 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
hoaithu
hoaithuhoaithuSaigon, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam1 Threads 41 Posts
amelie13: No relationship is perfect. With that in mind, why would you end a relationship?


More than once my relationships ended for my partner's insecurity!
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Oct 21, 2009 5:15 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
hoaithu: More than once my relationships ended for my partner's insecurity!


Amen!! That was also my repeat cycle as well!!thumbs up grin bouquet
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Oct 21, 2009 5:51 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
My opinions were never counted as being relevant. There was no equality. His way or no way, which , to be fair, I'd go along with for some considerable time, then one day I'd decide that he had enouch chances to be fair, and was still wanting it all his own way, even after countless discussions that he'd pay no attention to, and that would be it, I'd go.

Don't know for certain what that last straw is, it just happens, no big fuss, no fight, no moodiness, just a clear decision one day, and it is over for good. Kinda like wakening up to the fact that things will never change, and walking away finally. wine
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Oct 21, 2009 5:53 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I would only end the relationship if he cheated..

anything else can be worked outdunno
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Oct 21, 2009 6:37 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
kissmedeeply: I would only end the relationship if he cheated..

anything else can be worked out


For me this wouldn't be true. I have never had a man cheat on me but found it impossible to live with someone who lives a solitary selfish life within a relationship with no effort at changing.

I suppose everyone is different.wine
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Oct 21, 2009 6:40 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
I'd end a relationship cause of the lack of communication,cheating.
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Oct 21, 2009 6:42 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Whyconfused It had to be because we did not see eye to eye on important stuff.
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Oct 21, 2009 6:42 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
kissmedeeply: I would only end the relationship if he cheated..

anything else can be worked out
through experience there is other harmfull things that cant be worked out .....wine hug
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Oct 21, 2009 6:43 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
saseez: through experience there is other harmfull things that cant be worked out .....


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Oct 21, 2009 6:44 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
saseez: through experience there is other harmfull things that cant be worked out .....
thumbs up bouquet
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Oct 21, 2009 6:44 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
amelie13: Some people stay in relationships even if they aren't happy - for fear of loneliness, fear of not meeting someone else quickly.

Other people will end a relationship even if they think they might be alone for quite some time & with few regrets.

No relationship is perfect. With that in mind, why would you end a relationship?


I hardly ever end a relationship............ only if I know there is no hope or if the relationship is bad for me.

Most women I have dated are good, decent women - maybe that's the problem! confused
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Oct 21, 2009 6:48 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
You can't have a relationship with someone that lies and deceives you..it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that will not meet you half way. You can't have a relationship with someone that is selfish and jealous of your family and friends, it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that refuses to communicate with you...or communicates with you makes an agreement with you then goes ahead and does what ever they want including planned parent hood!! It's impossible to have a true relationship with lies and hidden agendas!!!

This is not love but selfishness and has nothing to do with true marriage!!!
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Oct 21, 2009 6:53 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
rubendario: You can't have a relationship with someone that lies and deceives you..it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that will not meet you half way. You can't have a relationship with someone that is selfish and jealous of your family and friends, it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that refuses to communicate with you...or communicates with you makes an agreement with you then goes ahead and does what ever they want including planned parent hood!! It's impossible to have a true relationship with lies and hidden agendas!!!

This is not love but selfishness and has nothing to do with true marriage!!!


Definetly true!
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Oct 21, 2009 7:06 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Good thread with good discussions.thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2009 7:07 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
gingerb: For me this wouldn't be true. I have never had a man cheat on me but found it impossible to live with someone who lives a solitary selfish life within a relationship with no effort at changing.

I suppose everyone is different.



I concur with Ginger.wine
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