Oct 21, 2009 4:59 AM CST Why do you finally end a relationship?
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 posts
main reason these days is if im not being treated right or unfairly... in the past ive stayed in horrible relationships ..but iwont be treated badly in anyway anymore ....
amelie13: Some people stay in relationships even if they aren't happy - for fear of loneliness, fear of not meeting someone else quickly.
Other people will end a relationship even if they think they might be alone for quite some time & with few regrets.
No relationship is perfect. With that in mind, why would you end a relationship?
Regarding your second paragraph, I don't want to waste another moment with someone that does not love, have any passion, compassion, and no common sense nor true intelligence.
It's a total waist of my time, energy, and provides no avenue to express my love, passion, compassion, intelligence, spirituality, and aid in my growth as an individual human being or within the union of a beneficial couple.
saseez: main reason these days is if im not being treated right or unfairly... in the past ive stayed in horrible relationships ..but iwont be treated badly in anyway anymore ....
ive stayed in arelatioship where i was made to feel like i wasnt worth much but finally realised i didnt want to stay like this.i now know that i deserve to be in a loving caring relatioship with someone who treats me right ....still looking for him
My opinions were never counted as being relevant. There was no equality. His way or no way, which , to be fair, I'd go along with for some considerable time, then one day I'd decide that he had enouch chances to be fair, and was still wanting it all his own way, even after countless discussions that he'd pay no attention to, and that would be it, I'd go.
Don't know for certain what that last straw is, it just happens, no big fuss, no fight, no moodiness, just a clear decision one day, and it is over for good. Kinda like wakening up to the fact that things will never change, and walking away finally.
kissmedeeply: I would only end the relationship if he cheated..
anything else can be worked out
For me this wouldn't be true. I have never had a man cheat on me but found it impossible to live with someone who lives a solitary selfish life within a relationship with no effort at changing.
You can't have a relationship with someone that lies and deceives you..it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that will not meet you half way. You can't have a relationship with someone that is selfish and jealous of your family and friends, it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that refuses to communicate with you...or communicates with you makes an agreement with you then goes ahead and does what ever they want including planned parent hood!! It's impossible to have a true relationship with lies and hidden agendas!!!
This is not love but selfishness and has nothing to do with true marriage!!!
rubendario: You can't have a relationship with someone that lies and deceives you..it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that will not meet you half way. You can't have a relationship with someone that is selfish and jealous of your family and friends, it's impossible. You can't have a relationship with someone that refuses to communicate with you...or communicates with you makes an agreement with you then goes ahead and does what ever they want including planned parent hood!! It's impossible to have a true relationship with lies and hidden agendas!!!
This is not love but selfishness and has nothing to do with true marriage!!!
gingerb: For me this wouldn't be true. I have never had a man cheat on me but found it impossible to live with someone who lives a solitary selfish life within a relationship with no effort at changing.
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Other people will end a relationship even if they think they might be alone for quite some time & with few regrets.
No relationship is perfect. With that in mind, why would you end a relationship?