LL totally agree with every word, however i would add to the Op DONT go there
one thing to be very good friends and maybe you fancy each other or its just him who knows but to go beyond the friendship boundary can have an adverse affect on the future friendship.
I have just been sent this perfect guide to a perfect marriage
1. Two times a week we go to a nice restaurant, have a little beverage, good food and companionship. She goes on Tuesdays; I go on Fridays.
2. We also sleep in separate beds. Hers is in California , and mine is in Texas .
3. I take my wife everywhere, but she keeps finding her way back.
4. I asked my wife where she wanted to go for our anniversary. 'Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!' she said. So I suggested the kitchen.
5. We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.
6. She has an electric blender, electric toaster and electric bread maker. She said 'There are too many gadgets, and no place to sit down!' So I bought her an electric chair.
7. My wife told me the car wasn't running well because there was water in the carburetor. I asked where the car was. She told me, 'In the lake.'
8. She got a mud pack, and looked great for two days. Then the mud fell off.
9. She ran after the garbage truck, yelling, 'Am I too late for the garbage?' The driver said, 'No, jump in!'
10. Remember: Marriage is the number one cause of divorce.
11. I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.
12. I haven't spoken to my wife in 18 months. I don't like to interrupt her.
13. The last fight was my fault though. My wife asked, 'What's on the TV?' I said, 'Dust!'
Hi you are right most men cannot take rejection especially here behind a screen then again some woman cant. I have had friends on here pubically abused because they rejected their advances, its not nice and not fair on the person.
the best way is to ignore it
my last comment wasnt to offend it was just jesting
RE: where are the good guys?
Lush is here monsieur LushyguyThe Best and single