You are sooo right Dodge...All the years I was raising the kids I never had a spare moment. Worked 2 jobs and fell into bed exhausted every night. Now theres nothing I like better than wallowing around doing whatever I choose...no demands to do anything, or be anywhere. I find it completely restores my energy.
I can only give you the advise I would take myself, Ive had a couple of internet ecounters. Be a smart chick in cyberspace. Go into this with an open heart, hope for the best, But dont have expectations. Keep a sharp eye out for red flags and dont ignore them if you see them. Listen to your intuition always. I believe in fairy tale ending...I also believe they are rare. I truly wish you the best and hope this is the start of something wonderful.
RE: Rejection Issues
Sooo true eh...the most dangerous time for a woman in a Domestic violence situation is immeadiatly AFTER she leaves