I recently had a former ex boyfriend ask me to go out. This happens to me a lot. I still get e-mails from at least five of them. Some of which I dated over ten years ago. I was just wondering what everyone thought about re-connecting with exes. Is it just repeating a vicious cycle? Or is it worth a second try?
I agree somewhat. I'm such "perpetrator" that I'd be reluctant to talk to someone who doesn't have a picture posted. Honestly, looks come into play whether we like it or not. But luckily, different people are attracted by different looks.
When I was younger, I was bored very easily. Guys that were extremely nice were too accomodating and I always ended up leaving for more of a challenge. As you get a little older, you realize that you should have stuck with the nice guys. So hang in there!
Part of it is having the responsibilities of a parent for either a man or woman. When you are childless, it is easier to go out on a moment's notice. When you have children, you have to schedule your social life around taking care of your child's needs and activities.
I live in a small rural town and trust me, I have seen both. There are women here who don't see their kids ever and don't even pay their child support. It is not always the dad getting a bad deal though. Sometimes, the mom is the better choice. I agree that unless it is unsafe for the child, both parents should see the kids as much as possible.
Woman attract men of all types. Sure, you should choose those with strong values, but getting a few losers attracted to you, in no way shows your own mind or moral character.
I understand exactly what you are saying. But in my experience, men are the same way in real life sometimes. It's the "gotta get me some" mentality. They aren't necessarily trying to rush a long term relationship. I think they are just saying whatever they think you want to hear, so that they can get laid.
I'm new and just wanted to say hi to everyone. I've never been on a dating site before. I just read the forums once with my sister when she was logged in and thought it looked interesting.
Imperial Forum Posts (77)
reoccurring exes
I recently had a former ex boyfriend ask me to go out. This happens to me a lot. I still get e-mails from at least five of them. Some of which I dated over ten years ago. I was just wondering what everyone thought about re-connecting with exes. Is it just repeating a vicious cycle? Or is it worth a second try?