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Feb 20, 2010 12:30 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
rko_mark_2006
rko_mark_2006rko_mark_2006Knoxville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 5 Posts
I'm Just Curious About it?

I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.

It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.

Thoughts?
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Feb 20, 2010 12:33 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
rko_mark_2006: I'm Just Curious About it?

I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.

It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.

Thoughts?


Then you would be the common denominator....


Ergo, sort yourself out before going near another one
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Feb 20, 2010 12:35 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
rko_mark_2006
rko_mark_2006rko_mark_2006Knoxville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 5 Posts
I guess I shouldn't be the nice guy?

Or just wait several more years, and wait till girls my age are more mature, and know what they want.
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Feb 20, 2010 12:35 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Here are some thoughts on this matter:

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Feb 20, 2010 12:37 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
rko_mark_2006: I guess I shouldn't be the nice guy?

Or just wait several more years, and wait till girls my age are more mature, and know what they want.


Or take note of why every relationship ended, if there is a common string there, look into curing it, and nice? ain't that for others to decide and not a label to pin on yourself?
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Feb 20, 2010 12:58 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
LadyPhoenix1965
LadyPhoenix1965LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 Posts
tufty: Then you would be the common denominator....Ergo, sort yourself out before going near another one


I wouldn't go that far. There are many factors in this equation, including youth. I've read lots of complaints from young men who are frustrated by the whims of young women. It used to be the other way around, when I was young. Figures!

I think you just need to be patient, or maybe look to date older women...
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Feb 20, 2010 1:15 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
rko_mark_2006
rko_mark_2006rko_mark_2006Knoxville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 5 Posts
Lady,

You have a point. But Most Older women like 25-28 Want a older guy in his 30's. So I guess I'm just going to be patient.
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Feb 20, 2010 1:16 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts


just what i was about to do....send the prev. forum
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Feb 20, 2010 1:17 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
Merri
MerriMerriDefiance, Ohio USA531 Posts
rko_mark_2006: Lady,

You have a point. But Most Older women like 25-28 Want a older guy in his 30's. So I guess I'm just going to be patient.


Your so young comfort You think 25-28 is older women laugh
I'm not laughing at you, I just think that is so cute wave
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Feb 20, 2010 1:19 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
rko_mark_2006
rko_mark_2006rko_mark_2006Knoxville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 5 Posts
Merri: Your so young You think 25-28 is older women
I'm not laughing at you, I just think that is so cute


Ha, thanks Merri. Well I was just setting a age. I think The oldest i would consider dating is 30.
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Feb 20, 2010 3:41 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
koenig355
koenig355koenig355Miami, Florida USA3 Posts
love them banana and leave them guys can never win
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Feb 20, 2010 3:45 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
Imperial
ImperialImperialNorth Vernon, Indiana USA2 Threads 77 Posts
In response to: I'm Just Curious About it?

I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.

It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.

Thoughts?


When I was younger, I was bored very easily. Guys that were extremely nice were too accomodating and I always ended up leaving for more of a challenge. As you get a little older, you realize that you should have stuck with the nice guys. So hang in there!bouquet
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Feb 20, 2010 3:48 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
rko_mark_2006: I'm Just Curious About it?

I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.

It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.

Thoughts?
guys always say this- I mean, I have read this over & over again on here. I have also had the experience of guys leaving me for another woman who was a complete ho, or the drama queen whiny high maintenance type - which I am not at all.

So I would say the same - guys complain about these kinds of women all the time. but it's usually who they choose.
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Feb 20, 2010 4:04 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Maybe she didnt like you always going to bed with your Helmet on ,, rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 20, 2010 4:07 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
LadyPhoenix1965
LadyPhoenix1965LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 Posts
felixis99: guys always say this- I mean, I have read this over & over again on here. I have also had the experience of guys leaving me for another woman who was a complete ho, or the drama queen whiny high maintenance type - which I am not at all.

So I would say the same - guys complain about these kinds of women all the time. but it's usually who they choose.


Going through that exact thing myself at the moment. Keeps callling to tell me the latest 'stunt' she's pulled. Gets all upset and down on women... doh
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Feb 20, 2010 4:11 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
jonnt: Maybe she didnt like you always going to bed with your Helmet on ,,
exactly - I mean there's usually another issue going on that has nothing to do with how nice you are.

I've left good guys, and I've left guys who weren't nice. The ones who weren't nice - that IS why I left, but the good ones - it was usually something like I was moving, or going through a difficult personal time, or we didn't want the same things - one wanted to escalate the relationship faster than the other & such.


so even tho I am sure you're joking, you make a good point
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Feb 20, 2010 4:14 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
superstratrat
superstratratsuperstratratdublin, Dublin Ireland7 Posts
jonnt: Maybe she didnt like you always going to bed with your Helmet on ,,
roflrolling on the floor laughing laugh laugh

whos to say your a nice guy and the others are jerks realise you have problems and sort them out instead of using other people as scape goats
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Feb 20, 2010 4:19 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
rko_mark_2006: I'm Just Curious About it?

I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.

It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.

Thoughts?



I only posted to say Thank You for serving our country and may you be safe.I have a son who's serving in the Army too.I recently found out he's not in combat but works as a signal support specialist.
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Feb 20, 2010 7:27 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
LadyPhoenix1965: Going through that exact thing myself at the moment. Keeps callling to tell me the latest 'stunt' she's pulled. Gets all upset and down on women...


well just keep that soft shoulder soft.......................and readydevil
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Feb 20, 2010 7:34 PM CST Why Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?
LadyPhoenix1965
LadyPhoenix1965LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 Posts
felixis99: well just keep that soft shoulder soft.......................and ready


Oh, I'm ready... Ready to box his ears. HELLO!! Open your eyes, ya daft fool.... frustrated

smitten I know, I gotta keep my cool.... dancing My day will come...

cool
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