rko_mark_2006: I guess I shouldn't be the nice guy?
Or just wait several more years, and wait till girls my age are more mature, and know what they want.
Or take note of why every relationship ended, if there is a common string there, look into curing it, and nice? ain't that for others to decide and not a label to pin on yourself?
tufty: Then you would be the common denominator....Ergo, sort yourself out before going near another one
I wouldn't go that far. There are many factors in this equation, including youth. I've read lots of complaints from young men who are frustrated by the whims of young women. It used to be the other way around, when I was young. Figures!
I think you just need to be patient, or maybe look to date older women...
I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.
It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.
Thoughts?
When I was younger, I was bored very easily. Guys that were extremely nice were too accomodating and I always ended up leaving for more of a challenge. As you get a little older, you realize that you should have stuck with the nice guys. So hang in there!
I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.
It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.
Thoughts?
guys always say this- I mean, I have read this over & over again on here. I have also had the experience of guys leaving me for another woman who was a complete ho, or the drama queen whiny high maintenance type - which I am not at all.
So I would say the same - guys complain about these kinds of women all the time. but it's usually who they choose.
felixis99: guys always say this- I mean, I have read this over & over again on here. I have also had the experience of guys leaving me for another woman who was a complete ho, or the drama queen whiny high maintenance type - which I am not at all.
So I would say the same - guys complain about these kinds of women all the time. but it's usually who they choose.
Going through that exact thing myself at the moment. Keeps callling to tell me the latest 'stunt' she's pulled. Gets all upset and down on women...
jonnt: Maybe she didnt like you always going to bed with your Helmet on ,,
exactly - I mean there's usually another issue going on that has nothing to do with how nice you are.
I've left good guys, and I've left guys who weren't nice. The ones who weren't nice - that IS why I left, but the good ones - it was usually something like I was moving, or going through a difficult personal time, or we didn't want the same things - one wanted to escalate the relationship faster than the other & such.
so even tho I am sure you're joking, you make a good point
I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.
It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.
Thoughts?
I only posted to say Thank You for serving our country and may you be safe.I have a son who's serving in the Army too.I recently found out he's not in combat but works as a signal support specialist.
LadyPhoenix1965: Going through that exact thing myself at the moment. Keeps callling to tell me the latest 'stunt' she's pulled. Gets all upset and down on women...
well just keep that soft shoulder soft.......................and ready
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I have had several failed relationships due to the girl leaving me for a complete jerk.
It even happened with my marriage. She left me to be with a complete jerk.
Thoughts?